Spanking Questionnaire + 1 Dare

[cariadferch]

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided?

2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given?

3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.)

4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device?

5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.)

6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish?

7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)

8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)

9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.)

10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?)

11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.)

12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy?

Finished!
Thank you!

13) (Optional) And for getting this far means you really are a pervert and should be punished. Go to a sink and drop all your clothing from the waist down, baring your rear, bend over the sink, and spank your right ass cheek 40 times hard with your hand. Now get your hand wet, and keep it wet, and spank your left ass cheek 40 times hard with your wet hand. Was there a different in pain level between the dry and wet hand? Report back your findings in your reply.

[lowlysub]

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided?
Today just to be spanked but with right person I would try spanking them.

2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given?
Taken 120 but many of them were warmup. Only last 20 were hard.

3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.)
I have had only a few tools so of them strap.

4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device?
Hand was least

5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.)
Not what I call bondage. I have been to a mistress who punished me for masterbation with spanking.

6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish?
Probably dad always joking about taking me out to the woodshed..he never did.

7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
No

8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
Spanked as adult by Mistress Jean Bardot.

9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.)
No

10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?)
Tried but always to soft

11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.)
Mistress gave a few more playful spacks to my balls. Not enough for severe pain but more then enough to cringe. I was totally secured down so other than my yell I could not react.

12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy?
I would love a spanking challenge. Another spanker and myself spank each other as hard as we can. The goal is to make the spanker give their safe word. We agree punishment of additional spanking to loser. Loser also must submit to reminder spanking daily for a period of like a week.

13) (Optional) And for getting this far means you really are a pervert and should be punished. Go to a sink and drop all your clothing from the waist down, baring your rear, bend over the sink, and spank your right ass cheek 40 times hard with your hand. Now get your hand wet, and keep it wet, and spank your left ass cheek 40 times hard with your wet hand. Was there a different in pain level between the dry and wet hand? Report back your findings in your reply.
Will do Monday...
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[Martijn]

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided?
I prefer to spank others. Every now and then my switchy side comes out and I like to receive. Also spankings are a fun forfeit for bets. The tension on which side of the whip I end up makes it exciting.

2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given?
Honestly, I have no clue. Often I don't let the spankee count but I keep going until they kick their feet or until I feel it is enough / time to switch to a different implement. As a spankee myself, only a few 100 or so. Seeing the implements and numbers other people do on this site I learned that I dont have a high pain tolerance.

3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.)
In my experience, the pain is dependent on strength, bodypart, spankee and position. If I have to pick one it is my rubber paddle that has some painful knots. I find it difficult to use that one for self spanking. After a few strokes it is hard to maintain force and pace.

4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device?
The palm or a light flogger

5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.)
Yes I have spanked someone while in bondage. As for the optional details (for this and the questions below). I am a private person and I rather share those details in a one on one private conversation than write them on a public forum.

6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish?
When I was 16 years old I watched a porn movie. In that movie there was a disobedient woman who got spanked. I really enjoyed that scene. That night when I went to bed I replayed that moment 100 times in my head.

7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
Yes I have and have been spanked by a lover

8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
Yes I have spanked someone who wasn’t my lover.

9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.)
No

10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?)
Sometimes, for a dare or when I lose a bet. Of course I would rather win and make my opponent do the spanking

11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.)
I spanked women on their rear, inner tights, nipples, boobs and pussy.
I have been spanked on my rear, inner thighs and balls.

12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy?
I would love to be the coach of a female volleyball team. I think spanking would be a good motivation to be on time and during practice. Of course after a lost match, a spanking is a good way to provide extra motivation for the next match. And those volleyball short really call for a spanking


Finished!
Thank you!

13) (Optional) And for getting this far means you really are a pervert and should be punished. Go to a sink and drop all your clothing from the waist down, baring your rear, bend over the sink, and spank your right ass cheek 40 times hard with your hand. Now get your hand wet, and keep it wet, and spank your left ass cheek 40 times hard with your wet hand. Was there a different in pain level between the dry and wet hand? Report back your findings in your reply.
I'll do this at a later date and let you know.

cariadferch I look forward to your own answers to these questions . Will you reply to this topic? Or do you write a lovely blog about it?

[HW1997]

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided?
I prefer being spanked, though I do enjoy spanking others

2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given?
In one go - received: 200 on each cheek

3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.)
Crop and strap are equal worst I think

4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device?
Hand

5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.)
Yes, frequently - tied on all fours with my buttocks fully exposed.

6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish?
My ex liked it

7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
Yes, many times!

8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
Yep, at a party as a forfeit for losing a bet. Got 10 spanks from the 7 people present.

9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.)
Nope

10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?)
I do I find it sexual so I spank myself sometimes while masturbating

11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.)
Yes: thighs, breasts, abs, pussy

12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy?
To be tied up and subjected to a machine spanking in front of a large crowd

[cariadferch]

Originally Posted by Martijn

cariadferch I look forward to your own answers to these questions

Fair enough! What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided?
I prefer to be spanked.

2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given?
About 300, which I recently did. You can read about it here (part 1) and here (part 2).

3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.)
A long paddle wood paddle, though I have never been whipped with a crop. (You can read about the paddle here.)

4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device?
The hand.

5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.)
Kind of. For one dare on here I had to spank myself while I had my legs tied.

6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish?
Seeing a cheesy sword & sorcery movie back in high school were the heroine is flogged by the bad guys.

7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
Kind of, I had one lover who would give me a few swats during foreplay but he wasn't really into spanking.

8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
No.

9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.)
Kind of, see #7. I tried to subtly get him into straight up spanking but he didn't like the idea of hitting a woman. On reflection, I probably did a bad job encouraging him.

10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?)
Yes, usually because of payments for wagers through getDare, though sometimes I give myself a few spanks before I masturbate.

11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.)
Yes, on my breasts. (For more details of that story see here.)

12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy?
To be a beautiful Spanish princess who has to be taught some manners by an English sea captain (either played by Errol Flynn or Benedict Cumberbatch). On a deeper, darker note, to be publicly whipped for some deviant transgression.

13) (Optional) And for getting this far means you really are a pervert and should be punished. Go to a sink and drop all your clothing from the waist down, baring your rear, bend over the sink, and spank your right ass cheek 40 times hard with your hand. Now get your hand wet, and keep it wet, and spank your left ass cheek 40 times hard with your wet hand. Was there a different in pain level between the dry and wet hand? Report back your findings in your reply.
Personally, I think the water gradually hurts more, though I'm not sure, that is why I included this dare.

[HairbrushMe]

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided? Well, I definitely prefer to be really SPANKED, but I do enjoy doing a little playful spanking. Even though I like it, especially the anticipation and submission, it still really hurts once it starts and sometimes makes me (almost) regret being in the position.

2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given? Hmm. Hard to know. Bare handed warmups for several minutes, a couple hundred, I’d guess.

3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.). I have a heavy leather strap that probably combines the slap and the impact and leaves the most lasting impression.

4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device? Probably a suede flogger.

5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.) From time to time, a little rope is involved, but generally not.

6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish? Probably trading ass slaps with the pre-pubescent crush way back in formative years, combined with a healthy fantasy imagination.

7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.) Yes, with some frequency. A little spanking every now and then, maybe a bit one every month of two, if I’m bad/lucky.

8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.) No.

9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.) Not reallly.

10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?) Yes, when dared to and occasionally just because.

11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.) I have had my cock and balls spanked, whipped and tawsed often, probably more often than my ass.

12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy? Many. Guess simplest is female teacher and student combine to paddle me senseless for some schoolboy transgression, probably something that the schoolgirl manipulated me into getting in the first place.

Finished!
Thank you!

13) (Optional) And for getting this far means you really are a pervert and should be punished. Go to a sink and drop all your clothing from the waist down, baring your rear, bend over the sink, and spank your right ass cheek 40 times hard with your hand. Now get your hand wet, and keep it wet, and spank your left ass cheek 40 times hard with your wet hand. Was there a different in pain level between the dry and wet hand? Report back your findings in your reply.

Just did this one. 40 wet definitely hurts a little bit more and is also a little louder of course.

[rhl]

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided? I prefer being spanked but will also be the spanker. I really want to got to that restaurant in New York. You can be tied to a spanking bench , and have your partner spank you, or pay to have their guy to do the spanking. If course this is done in the middle of the room

2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given? I can not say, but it was replicating a video we had watched. Maybe 20 minutes.

3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.) Strap is bad but a crop worse.

4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device? The hand or flogger

5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.) Yes, by a stranger Have details in another post) and by girlfriend.

6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish? I'm not sure, but I wanted to experience the ass whipping I received as a child.

7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.) Yes, she was the first to spank me as an adult. While I do sometimes think about getting spanked, this scared me. She was the one to bring it up.

8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.) yes, done both. Once at a party, I was naked. (story in another post) I got spanked and one of the girls asked me to spank her, I said yes if you get naked. These girls had already spanked me.

9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.) once, and failed, but did get an answer from a CL ad

10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?)
Of course, I even participated in the spank bank thread, and a thread asking the posters to tell me how many to give myself. This had to stop when my sister got sick and died. I like the wooden spoon the best for self spanking.

11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.) Sort of yes. While tied naked standing spread eagle, he brought the top of his shoe up to my balls. Also was whipped on ass and front. To make a long story short (details in another post) but I answered a CL add to be used, as he felt to use me, and he went way past my expectations.

12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy? I'm in a skirt, dressed as a sissy, bra and stockings. To be told to find a tree limb. Then tied up to a picnic table. With my skirt lifted, and panties pulled down, the 3 maybe 4 girls take turns whipping my ass.
Then with very red cheeks, they bring out a strap-on and take turns with my hole. Afterwords they untie me and request to serve each one oralky. Maybe one or two sit on my face.
Afterwords they take off the pantyhose, tie them around my eyes so I can not see. My Bra and girly thong stays on, my wrists tied behind me.
Then with a collar and leash, I'm then walked out of the park. I can here the passing by whisper about my very red cheeks. Some even make comments for me to clearly hear. I'm reminded that I'm on display and get hard at the thought. I then hear women cat calling me because the thong can not hide my hard rod. I'm never given the dress back, and the bra was tied on in a way that it had to be cut off after I got home.

Finished!
Thank you!

13) (Optional) And for getting this far means you really are a pervert and should be punished. Go to a sink and drop all your clothing from the waist down, baring your rear, bend over the sink, and spank your right ass cheek 40 times hard with your hand. Now get your hand wet, and keep it wet, and spank your left ass cheek 40 times hard with your wet hand. Was there a different in pain level between the dry and wet hand? Report back your findings in your reply.

I jumped to this extra task. Got my thinner wooden spoon, the one that really hurts, even with a medium spank.
20 hard whacks to each check. Then wet the cheek, the water has given some relief to the burn.
Applied 20 more hard whacks to each cheek I really had to fight the urge to lighten swats, but kept going hard. Both sting very bad as I continued to apply these twenty as hard as I can.
I took a photo and yes the ass is pleasingly red.
To continue with the punishment, I put on my strap on ball gag. Inserted a plug into the rear, set a timer for 15 minutes. Then stood naked in the corner, thinking about how bad I was.
Time up, so I continue with this post.

As I right this, my cheeks still feel warm and hurt. I think this was the hardest I have hit myself in a long time.
I will now remove the plug and gag.

Thank you for the extra task.

[sissybill]

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided? / i luv to be spanked only

2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given? / i have been spanked 40 times non-stop on my bare ass

3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.) / crop

4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device? / flogger

5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.) / yes ive been spanked while tied to a wall

6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish? / a mistress i served

7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)

8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.) / omg yes spanked by 2 mistresses n 4 guys

9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.) / yes my x-gf

10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?) / oh yes wen ever im told too

11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.) / my thighs/ feet / face

12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy? / to be bent over n tied to a bench in a public park n my pants pulled down to ankles shirt lifted up exposing my ass in lace pantys n people lined up as far as i can see too wack my ass with thin branches

Finished!
Thank you!

13) (Optional) And for getting this far means you really are a pervert and should be punished. Go to a sink and drop all your clothing from the waist down, baring your rear, bend over the sink, and spank your right ass cheek 40 times hard with your hand. Now get your hand wet, and keep it wet, and spank your left ass cheek 40 times hard with your wet hand. Was there a different in pain level between the dry and wet hand? Report back your findings in your reply.

[Messupmyass]

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided? I like both the feeing of being dominant and dominated I love

2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given? Not given but taken 50 give or take the odd one to each cheek was in a public bathroom for a dare

3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.) like a leather belt with those metal parts

4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device? Romantic? Idk about romantic, hand maybe? But to both of them I’m going with a dildo

5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.) nope because no friends to help with dares

6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish? Seeing it on porn sites

7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.) had a lover spank me thought my school friend was with me and I was cheating on her she doesn’t go ways either only time to be spanked by someone else

8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.) ye, strangers

9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.) ye, strangers

10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?) dares and horny

11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.) cock and balls

12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy? Like a dream, having hot girls with either no underwear or high sky wedgie in skinny underwear to see this schemes be clapped

Finished!
Thank you!

13) (Optional) And for getting this far means you really are a pervert and should be punished. Go to a sink and drop all your clothing from the waist down, baring your rear, bend over the sink, and spank your right ass cheek 40 times hard with your hand. Now get your hand wet, and keep it wet, and spank your left ass cheek 40 times hard with your wet hand. Was there a different in pain level between the dry and wet hand? Report back your findings in your reply.

[dasa]

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided?
I like pain both ways, but more when I can feel it.

2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given?
I don't like being spanked bare handed.

3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.)
The crop is pretty painful if used correctly.

4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device?
Is there a romantic spanking device?

5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.)
I was spanked while bound and it was amazing.

6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish?
I don't know.

7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
I don't think I ever was spanked by somebody not a lover.

8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
No.

9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.)
No.

10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?)
Absolutely.

11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.)
Crotch area, chest. And I also tried slapping my face with bare hands, which is both embarassing and painful.

12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy?
I don't know. Most of my fantasies are about control, not spanking.

[Victoria85]

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided?
Prefer to be spanked, but sometimes have a bit of sadist streak
2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given?
Too much to count I think. It was a lot
3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.)
Hmm, a heavy metal cane or a big paddle of rubber
4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device?
I don't like least painful :P But I would go for a nice flogger
5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.)
Yes I have on multiple occasions in multiple ways
6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish?
I don't really know. I love how it makes me switch myself off
7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
Yes on multiple occassions
8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
Yeah on BDSM parties
9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.)
Nope
10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?)
Yes I do. Orders or Dares
11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.)
Almost all parts that are safe to be done so
12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy?
To serve at a high level BDSM party and be free to be used by many

Finished!
Thank you!

13) (Optional) And for getting this far means you really are a pervert and should be punished. Go to a sink and drop all your clothing from the waist down, baring your rear, bend over the sink, and spank your right ass cheek 40 times hard with your hand. Now get your hand wet, and keep it wet, and spank your left ass cheek 40 times hard with your wet hand. Was there a different in pain level between the dry and wet hand? Report back your findings in your reply.

[marriedslut]

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided?
I prefer to be spanked and don't see myself as spanking anyone, be it girl or a guy

2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given?

At one point in time, it went to receive 1000 plus in a day and i was hardly able to sit or sleep

3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.)
Personally, i find crop or belt to be very painful followed by paddle and then the hand.


4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device?
I like hand more than a device if it is romantic spanking


5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.)
I have been spanked while put in different positions and tied. They have been with me bent over, tied to pole, etc.

6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish?
It was a punishment and started as exploration which quickly escalated.

7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
Yes, my spanking was by my husband

8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
Yes, with me being loaned out to different people, they have spanked me during fucking me.

9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.)
Personally i have never asked to get spanked as such

10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?)
Only spanked myself when asked by someone to do it.

11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.)
Yes, i have been slapped on face, spanked on my tits, thighs and even my belly

12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy?

I don't have the spanking fantasy

Finished!
Thank you!

13) (Optional) And for getting this far means you really are a pervert and should be punished. Go to a sink and drop all your clothing from the waist down, baring your rear, bend over the sink, and spank your right ass cheek 40 times hard with your hand. Now get your hand wet, and keep it wet, and spank your left ass cheek 40 times hard with your wet hand. Was there a different in pain level between the dry and wet hand? Report back your findings in your reply.
I tried both and the one with wet hands definitely hurt more than dry hands. Now i have prints on both my ass cheeks.

Thanks,
Married Slut

[sissybill]

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided?= only being spanked

2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given?= 50

3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?= crop
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.)

4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device?=

5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.)= oh yes

6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish?= my x

7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)

8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)

9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.)

10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?)

11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.)

12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy?

Finished!
Thank you!

13) (Optional) And for getting this far means you really are a pervert and should be punished. Go to a sink and drop all your clothing from the waist down, baring your rear, bend over the sink, and spank your right ass cheek 40 times hard with your hand. Now get your hand wet, and keep it wet, and spank your left ass cheek 40 times hard with your wet hand. Was there a different in pain level between the dry and wet hand? Report back your findings in your reply.

[lilcurious]

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided?
I prefer to be spanked, definitely. But sometimes I'm having fun in spanking others too.

2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given?
Its a difficult question - where begins "spanking". I've never got a serious hand-spanking so far. But definitely a couple of proper slaps on my behind. I remember a situation where I got five or six in a row by a "fellow".

3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.)
That depends ... no it doesn't. I was playing with ... something like a paddle once. I think it's the worst. ...or I did the worst with it. After two or three togh strikes my whole bum was on fire. I remember getting quite terrified by that.
Well, I think a cane can be terrifying too - all can be terrifying if someone overdoes..

4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device?

A warm big hand on my ass, stroking, patting me.. erm.. device?

5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.)
no

6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish?
Ha! ...erm, I don't know. really. Maybe the idea isn't that far from, when most of your friends are ... devoted to a subcultural scene where all kinds of fetishism play quite a big role. but it's the chicken-egg problem. something brought me into that scene too.. I think I'd have to ask a therapist to answer to that.

7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
Oh well.. an extraordinary situation once. "Share the details" *F***
It has to do with the scene mentioned above. Somehow we got access to a room with a pillory. We were quite in private on the sidelines of a party. Well, somehow I wanted to get locked in and found myself lying on my stomach with my head and hands secured in a plank. In fact it was not my lover anymore. It was my ex and first we didn't think of spanking at all.
I remember after a while he was stroking my ass and I was praying for some hard claps on my cheeks.. but he bared slowly my ass and went on massaging my cheeks until I felt his finger reaching my anus - something he never did before.. and soon he was in.. but not for long as he came round to get his boner sucked.
With more or less enthusiasm we tried several things until I gathered all my courage, asking him if he could spank me.
Well.. that was the moment I got the five or six slaps on my ass as I've mentioned above. I still don't know what it was - but we got somehow interrupted... or he was irritated by what he was doing. I felt thrilled quite much - but far away from satisfied. But it was the end ... of that evening ... and the intimate dates with my ex.

8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)

A friend of mine is somewhat like a dominant - at least he used to put that on display for everyone.. ok, I know he had a quite good relationship with another friend of mine, practicing their fetish-life. Some day at a party we've been talking ... I was talking about my interest ... and got an offer.
I was ending up getting a cane on my ass (don't ask me why he has such things by hand at a party, or at least in his car.. but on the other hand i have to admit it wasn't so extraordinary as I think of it now. crazy times.. )
Well.. starting playfully a few "taps".. then I got a few more "serious" ones.. and most embarrassing for me until today: As he wanted to stop his "demonstration", thinking I must have had enough for a beginner, I was raising my pretty tight skirt before his eyes and put my hands against the wall - in the backyard of a club while the party was running inside.
I remember his words "six more ... are you ready?" And I was counting by myself causing me nearly getting a climax. At least it felt so..

9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.)

Oh well... don't ask about the several hint's I gave to my partners..

10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?)
Oh well, yes!
Why is far too complex. Can't say that for myself.
When: I have to admit, quite regularly. At home, at work and underway.

11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.)
Not by someone else. But by myself ... I'd say nearly every inch of my skin.

12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy?
oh my.. I've had so many.
I have a thing with authorities: getting spanked by my neighbor - he's a law-professor.
a more ... playful side would be, but these times are gone by far: being a slave-model at a show.


Finished!
Thank you!

13) (Optional) And for getting this far means you really are a pervert and should be punished. Go to a sink and drop all your clothing from the waist down, baring your rear, bend over the sink, and spank your right ass cheek 40 times hard with your hand. Now get your hand wet, and keep it wet, and spank your left ass cheek 40 times hard with your wet hand. Was there a different in pain level between the dry and wet hand? Report back your findings in your reply.

oh Martijn, you damn... tricked me into this!
... ok, of now for the test

well.. except that my kitchen hat to get dry-wiped. And honestly I don't want to run around with an all read ass the whole weekend I was doing gentle. ...maybe I have to repeat this.
But for now I'd prefer a dry hand.
The wet side stings some more. I think the water is giving more ... contact. The wet side felt a more intense burning sensation ... i'd say some milliseconds later than the dry side which was reacting with instant warm stinging that's beginning to relieve already when the pain at the wet side is still uprising.

As I said, I wasn't able to do this "properly" - I will report to Martijin if I come to do this right once again.

[ewitch]

1) Do you prefer to be spanked? Spank others? Both? Or strictly only one sided?
Will do either but prefer recieving



2) What is the most number of spanks (bare handed) you have taken or given?
Don't know but is wasn't that hard. Would like someone to give me a proper spanking



3) From your experience, what is the most painful spanking device?
(hand, strap, paddle, crop, etc.)
no idea



4) What is the least painful, most romantic, spanking device?
hand - you get to feel up the person at the same time



5) Have you ever been spanked, or have spanked someone, while in bondage? (Optional: Share the details.)
yes - tied to a spanking bench



6) What got you into spanking as a sexual fetish?
Don't know - just find it really sensual



7) Have you ever been spanked by, or spanked, a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
no



8) As an adult, have you ever been spanked by, or spanked someone, who wasn't a lover? (Optional: Share the details.)
yes



9) Have you ever asked, or tried to persuade, someone to spank you, or to spank them, and they declined? (Optional: Share the details.)
no



10) Do you ever spank yourself? (Optional: If so, why and when?)
tried it but never found it hard enough



11) Have you ever had another body part besides your rear spanked, or spanked someone in a place besides the rear end? Which part? (Optional: Share the details.)
no



12) What is your biggest spanking fantasy?
Dress up as a bunny girl and serve a group getting spanked for real and other mistakes during the evening.