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Thank you for this! It was such a useful exercise for me

I Core information

1. Age: 23

2. Name: EJ

3. Bisexual

4. Who you've fantasised about humiliating you?

• Your Owner
• Your Bully
• Someone you owe money or favour
• Someone who you need something from
• Any man or woman who your Owner lends you to
• Your blackmailer
• Your abductor
• Anyone higher than you in the slave hierarchy

5. At what age did you have your first humiliation experience or realise that humiliation made you wet? Under 10 years old, I enjoyed playing games and purposely losing for the embarassing consequences. I didn't realise until I was a lot older why that was

II List of Humiliations
Indicate what numbers in this list turn you on. Add exclamation marks (!) if it makes your face glow red and your cunt drip uncontrollably.

Key:

• Love
• Like or love to hate
• Never tried/unsure
• No particular interest
• Dislike - limit unless in very specific circumstances
• Hard limit

1. Being Controlled / Owned

Being ordered around
Being made to perform tasks
Having to answer any questions from your owner fully and honestly
Having to crawl on all fours
Having to wear a collar to show that you're owned
Being denied orgasm
Not being permitted to wear panties
Not being permitted to wear a bra
Having to be naked in the house
Having to eat off the floor
Having to ask before you can go pee
Being told what clothes to wear every day
Being told what you are allowed to eat
Being told when and where you can sleep
Having to pee outside
Being tattooed to show you're owned


2. Being put on display

Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes at home
Being made to dress in a costume for him (schoolgirl, maid, etc)
Being stripped naked in front of people your Owner invites round
Being made to masturbate in front of people your Owner invites round
Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes in public
Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes at work
Having to bare your tits, ass or cunt in a public place
Having pictures of you posted onto the web
Being put on display as a whore in a shop window

3. Being treated as a sex object

Being casually groped by your Owner whenever s/he wants
Being fucked as hard and as roughly as possible
Being groped in public by your Owner
Being treated as nothing but a set of holes
Being treated as nothing more than a pair of big tits
Being slapped across your face with his hard cock
Being whored out
Being used as a cumbucket or cumrag
Being gang-banged
Being used as a party favour
Having to take it up your ass
Having to take it down your throat
Being used in a glory hole or adult theatre
Being raped
Being groped in public by a complete stranger

4. Being verbally degraded

Being talked to in a condescending manner
Making you agree with and repeat back the names you are being called
Being talked to in a rude and arrogant fashion
Being called dirty
Being called a slut
Being called a whore
Having any of the above names written on your body
Being called a cunt
Being called a bitch
Being called worthless
Being called stupid
Being called a cow
Being called a pig
Being talked about to others
Being talked about to others as if you're not there


5. Being physically hurt

Having your hair pulled
Having your face slapped
Having your tits slapped
Having your cunt slapped
Having your nipples pinched or clamped
Being bent over and having your ass spanked

6. Being disciplined

All below are love and love to hate
Being castigated for doing something incorrectly
Being scolded like a naughty girl
Having to write lines
Having to stand in the corner
Being made to apologise for your behaviour
Having to bare your bottom, bend over and wait for your punishment
Having to count out each spank or stroke as it lands on your bottom
Having to stand in the corner with your red punished ass on display

7. Being treated as unimportant

Being told your only purpose in life is to serve your Owner
Having your needs ignored in favour of your Owner's
Having your views mocked, belittled or ignored
Having your feelings mocked, belittled or ignored
Having your time deliberately wasted
Being ignored altogether
Treating your work or career as trivial or unimportant
Him reminding you of your feminist beliefs as he orders you around like a maid


8. Having your orgasm controlled

Having to ask permission before you can cum
Having to ask permission to touch your cunt
Being restricted to humping household objects as your only means of cumming.
Being made to edge throughtout the day to keep your cunt wet and ready
Being locked in a chastity belt
Being denied orgasm for days or weeks or months at a time (specify length)
Only getting cock in your mouth or ass

9. Being shamed about your body

Being told you're too fat
Being told your tits are too small
Being told you're ugly
Being inspected and having your flaws pointed out to you
Being compared to other women and told how you fail to measure up

10. Physical Constraints as a means of humiliation

Having your hands cuffed behind your back
Being kept in chains
Being gagged to stop you talking
Being gagged with an O-ring so your mouth and throat can be fucked
Being tied up naked with your legs spread so you can be used at will
Being kept locked up in a cage when you're not in use


11. Making you do demeaning and disgusting things

Being gagged with your used panties
Being spat on
Having your Owner sit on your face
Making you lovingly lick and kiss your Owners feet and toes
Having a toilet brush shoved up your cunt or asshole to clean it
Being fucked with a paper bag over your head
Being fucked with your used panties over your head
Being hosed down like an animal
Making you lick his/her shoes clean
Being made to lie in mud
Being made to spend the night in the barn
Making you piss yourself
Being pissed on or in
Having to swallow your Owner's piss
Having piss in or over your food
Having cum in or over your food
Having you go out in public with cum over your face
Having you spend the day with cum in your bra and panties
Being fucked with your head in the toilet
Making you lick the toilet seat clean
Making you hump the toilet


12. Controlling your other relationships

Having your private life discussed with family, friends or work colleagues
Having intimate pictures of you shown to family, friends or work colleagues
Making you have sex with your friends or work colleagues
Making you help arrange sex for your Owner with family, friends or work colleagues
Giving him/her access to all your computer accounts - email, facebook, blogs


13. Raceplay

Having your race treated as inferior
Being made to fuck other races who you wouldn't normally
Being called racially insulting names


14. Gender play as humiliation

Making you have sex with a woman if you're straight
Making you have sex with a man if you're a lesbian
Treating all women as inferior to men

15. Your position in your relationship

Letting your Owner have sex with other women
Having to watch or listen to him/her have sex with another
Being denied sex while your Owner has as much sex as they want
Being told by your Owner how much more s/he enjoys sex with the other woman
Having to move into the spare room because his lover is now in your room
Having to clean his lover's home as well as yours
Having to buy her clothes, gifts and jewellery
Having to clean her cunt and his cock with your mouth after they've made love
Being humiliated by your Owner's lover for being inferior to her
Not even having a Owner: you're just the live-in maid for another couple


16. Generic Humiliation


Being laughed at
Being told by your owner what s/he intends doing to you next
Being told that making you feel mortified makes his cock hard
Having to beg him for something you need or want
Having to beg him _not_ to make you do something you don't want to do
Being humiliated to tears
Being encouraged to cry because it turns your Owner on
Having to thank you the person after they've hurt or used you
Having to say sorry to your Owner even when it's not your fault
Being taunted because your cunt gets wet when you are humiliated