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so what sort of dares did you start doing and was it just as a way to explore yourself more?
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Mostly bondage related ones, it was and still is my biggest kink. A few other things mixed in, trying out new ideas. A bit of semi-public stuff (things in backgarden), a bit of anal, a bit of light pain. Just simply trying new things to see what i liked.
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when did you become more of a domme and what caused this change?
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I always had a confidence and leadership side outside kink. So i just started trying a few occasions, tying up a boyfriend and playing with him. Really enjoyed it. Did a bit more and a bit more, did less and less submission myself. Over a few years it just kind of swung more towards dominant that submissive.
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and to what extent are you still submissive, like do you still like doing dares and kinky stuff for other people?
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I don't know if i would fully submit to a single person as their submissive. It'd have to be someone really special.
But i can easily get a rush and pleasure from doing one-off dares, bets and challenges. Maybe a single play session if i was really in the mood and had someone. And if i find a hook-up offline i'm quite open to letting them bind me.
So i'm more Domme than Sub. I'm far more interested to take on a sub than i am to be one, and more likely to take on a bet/challenge in my favour.