I guess it can be made quite simple:
In the moment you are asking yourself the question "is it cheating" the answer probably is yes.
When you are thinking about that, you already know there is something wrong.
A bit deeper:
When you can talk about everything and the partner knows about what you are doing, everything is fine.
If not, it is cheating.
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To call yourself a dom is not hard. The hard part is to be one and act like that.
Absolutely love:
Tease and denial, bondage, gags, clamps / clothespins
Like:
Humiliation, obedience training, corner time, ordered positions dice game / games of chances, pain (spanking, uncomfortable etc)
Limit:
Non consensual public exposure of anyone, scat, things no one should need to mention. And feet !
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