My partner is as mentioned above quite vanilla, and she has troubles to sometimes understand the kink world and why people do such things. Therefore she doesn't know (yet) that I explore here. I like to have an occasional D/s play, but I am not looking to find an online partner. I browse here mainly for ideas, fun talks and discussion on certain topics. Some stuff I even try with my lady home. She is open to try new stuff, but will take time before I tell her about this site.