1. Laying or kneeling?
Kneeling
2. Bondage or orgasm control?
Bondage
3. Ass or boobs?
Add
4. Dick or vagina?
Vagina
5. Dom or sub?
I'd choose to be a sub over being a dom even though I switch on occasion
6. Denial or forced?
Denial,
7. Hypnosis or extreme pain?
Never tried either, but I guess hypnosis
8. Collars or cuffs?
cuffs, much more restrictive 
9. Scat or blood?
Blood
10. Masturbating with your hand or with toys?
Hand
11. Get messy with food or mud?
Food,
12. Lots of sex or just in moderation?
Moderation, thats more fun
13. Gentle love or psychotic sex-crazed crazy sessions?
crazy sessions, mostly because i'd love for a girl to dominate me 
14. Spanking with your hand or 'other' implements?
Hand
15. Get spanked with a hand or 'other' implements?
Her choice, but I'd say other
16. Anal: giving or receiving?
receiving