You should have a remote vibe plug, just like this one:
https://www.amazon.com/Vibrating-Ele...dp/B0897QCXXB/
And, when feeling extra naughty, like when out in public in no panties,
short skirt, plug it it (with charged batteries) and bring the remote.
Now try to remote yourself a couple of times, then leave it to
a random guy to experiment on you (without telling what it controls).
See if you can remain calm the whole time people play with you...