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Originally Posted by camgib

I’d love to tell you that “anal only” is the way to go, but in my experience, while it’s possible to drain someone (most guys) from prostate stimulation given enough time and patience, it just isn’t feasible for everyone. It’s true that some guys can achieve a relatively fulfilling orgasm from prostate stimulation, even from live anal penetration. It’s also true that some guys require quite significant amounts of time, far above most top’s staying power or interest.

E-Stim seems like a viable alternative, and I’ve had some success with the Mystim Twisting Tom. (Search on Amazon) Medicaltoys.com also has a dual-electrode device, and I’ve had good success with several of their products. I’ve used the MyStim to “tenderize” a sub before fucking with marginal success (50%) and have a couple of boys who have bought them and been satisfied with them.

I’d also suggest that you might try the reverse of what you described in your OP. You said “helping after anal play.” You might try anal play after helping. Try edging FIRST then anal for the finish. Repeat as necessary until you train yourself to cum from anal play. It DOES help. You’ll find that over time, you need less “pre-flight” before anal to achieve your desired results. Whether you can do without entirely is another matter, though.

Thanks for your reply! I think I could lead myself to anal cum, but there is always a point that makes me feel so horny, maybe it is even an anal orgasm, and usually I can't take a break and cool down, because my brain wants me to jerk off. I feel ruined after, but can't stop this practice. Think that this urge is caused by feeling my penis so sensitive and full of cum.

Yeah, I do edging before anal few times. Nice, but still giving me no fully satisfaction from anal only cum. Recently I like no touching for few days before anal. It feels better for me.