Greetings.
BDSM practices are considered by some of the paraphilias (Paraphilias, formerly known as sexual perversions, are sexual disorders, characterized by the presence of recurring and atypical sexual fantasies and desires that may concern: inanimate objects, suffering or self-humiliation. themselves or others, children or other non-consenting persons).
In this context, however, we are talking about relationships between adults and consenting ones, however ...
Where does consensus end?
How do we view BDSM? If we put it under the playful category, that is, as a game (and that in my humble opinion it must be), we shouldn't worry too much.
We have to worry a lot when it becomes addictive. When it becomes a morbid bond and turns into an executioner and victim relationship.
Where the executioner is in keeping with his predominant position and takes advantage of it. Attention in this context who is submissive (becomes a victim) and that is he puts his life literally in the hands of the other and the other even if he were the most upright person in the world, when he has the power to decide on the life of others in his hands, we know how it ends.
As always, the means and the end are ourselves, with our decisions and our actions, it is we who decide where to place the next limit.
With love M.S.
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