Pain I am fine with - as long as it is not marking, permanent and I am (or someone is) in control. I have never done anything too painful but as long as it isn't damaging then I am interested to try it.
Humiliation on the other hand, I would stick myself far at the weaker end. Again, I haven't tried much (only new here) but it isn't something I would be too willing to risk.
So with the two combined, I'd say moderate.
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