I am pansexual. I don't care that much about the gender. The individual itself is much more important. For instance, I am usually not attracted by dumb people, persons who don't read, jerky behavior, braggers etc.
If anything at all, I prefer men, women, yetis and more who have a strong character with confidence, able and willing to change things. It doesn't have to be physical strength, but athletic powerful bodies are quite attractive to me, though it's about more than the looks. I love that energy.
If not that, then the person has to be quite lovely in my eyes.
Anything else only works when I get in my sadistic "I fuck you hard" mode, which only works in fantasy watching porn.
For longtime relationship, it's not quite different, though it's more difficult to say what works. I had had three girlsfriends so far, and am married to my man, a FtM as it turned out during our relationship.
I think I am romantic because of my naiv fairytale view on love, sex and relationship. My husband and I agreed on an open relationship, though it seems to hurt his feelings when I use that openess. He is okay with it, when my sex goes without feelings, but I tend and like to involve feelings with persons I get so intimate with. I am full of sexual desire, but feelings are right behind and attached to it.
For me being cuddled and tendered after being groped, fucked and used is much more important than flowers, candles and chocolate. It's nice to get it, and get attention and be courted, but the feelings behind it and small gestures count much more for me than the surface. Though so far I didn't get much compliments on my looks or my personality, and when I got it was sweet like honey. I also needed and still need to learn to accept it, and that I deserve it.
Most favorite romantic movie, that's a tough one. I remember I cried for at least two hours after having watched 'The Piano' and I still love the music by Michael Nyman. I haven't rewatched it though. Edward Scissorhands was quite romantic. I don't watch that many movies on purpose, and I generally don't like the usual popular romatic movies and hollywood blockbusters. I liked 'Juno' a lot. And it's not that hard to make me cry by a good scene of unconditional love.
In fact, even after having cycled through a lot of romantic movie lists, I can't say I have one favorite romantic movie. Or I forgot about it then.
EDIT: Now that I remembered the end of 'Secretary' that would be it if it counts. The way he tenders her after she sat there for days.
