It's always best to be upfront when covering, reviewing, and re-reviewing rules within these kinds of relationships. If a rule is going to risk any sense of further bonding or evolution of the relationship between both individuals, then the two will have to decide which is more important... the rule or the longer-term health of the relationship.
If your heart is not into something, then it will begin to show after awhile in some form, whether it be hesitation, procrastination, distanced behavior, dwindling communication, etc. It's not a failure to be honest with a dom and let them know that a rule is no longer doing something for you or maybe even that you are experiencing burn-out. One can always take a break from a rule or more with the intent of recharging themselves and the relationship. To a certain degree, doms will be subservient to whatever boundaries the sub puts up even while the sub is reciprocating submission back to them.
Overall, both sides have to be happy here and discussing the issue is crucial to getting things back on track, if and when they fall off.
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