Honestly to me this sounds like a conversation that should happen not during sex or play. You two need to sit down and talk about the things you like and the things he likes. You can google kink/fetish lists and make copies that you can both mark up how you see fit. And then compare the lists to see what matches up to build on.
Also being clear in what you want isn’t being dominant. It’s making sure you also are getting what you want. Things like limits exist because you have the right to not like something. And in discussing what you both like you can find limits for both of you together.
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Likes: rope play, spanking and other forms of light impact play
Limits: anal, piss, scat, video, pics, permanent damage
Don’t send me messages asking to help with your dare or help you shop. If I want to take parts in dares I will. If you need someone to pick out the things you are buying then you don’t need to being doing dares.
I'm not looking for a partner.
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