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In your mind, you see a rape taking place…

1. Are you the victim, or an observer? (and if you’re an observer, who IS the victim?)
a. I am the victim
b. The victim is a stranger
c. The victim is someone I like
d. The victim is someone I do NOT like.
e. Other____________

2. Who is the rapist?
a. Your current lover
b. Your ex.
c. Someone you like
d. Someone you don’t like
e. A stranger, or “other” - I have multiple fantasies. A stranger at the club/bar, a group of boys while at a college party, or a coworker.

3. Where does the rape take place?
a. Victim’s home
b. Rapist’s home
c. Outdoors
d. A car
e. Other - A public bathroom, in a house (probably the rapist's or his friend's house), or a closed office.

4. Is the victim penetrated
a. Orally
b. Vaginally
c. Anally
d. “between the breasts”
e. Other_______

5. Does the rapist apply his mouth/lips to
a. The victim’s lips
b. The victim’s breasts
c. The victim’s vagina
d. The victim’s anus
e. Other__________

6. Does the rape involve drugs/alcohol?
a. Both rapist and victim have consumed alcohol
b. Rapist has, victim has not, consumed alcohol
c. Victim has, rapist has not, consumed alcohol
d. Someone—probably the rapist—has given the victim a “date rape” drug
e. Other________

7. Is the rapist
a. Attractive
b. Average
c. Repulsive
d. Unseen
e. Other__________

8. Does the victim
a. Fight back throughout
b. Fight back until realizing its futile
c. Not resist at all
d. “play possum”
e. Other_______

9. To enforce compliance, did the rapist use
a. A weapon - I have a fantasy and being penetrated by a gun.
b. Bondage
c. Threats (including blackmail)
d. Brute Force (if so, ONLY enough? Or MORE THAN necessary?)
e. Other______

10. Is this rape
a. A fantasy
b. A fear
c. A need
d. Something that occurred in real-life
e. Other__________

BONUS QUESTIONS. AFTER the rape…
11. Does the victim tell anyone about the rape?
a. The authorities
b. A rape crisis center or helpline
c. Just current (or future) S/O’s
d. Family and/or close friend(s)
e. Other - No one.

12. What becomes of the rapist?
a. He is interviewed by police
b. He is arrested and charged
c. He is convicted (or pleads guilty) and sentenced
d. The victim never sees him again.
e. Other - Nothing. I either never see him again or I see him every day at school/work.

SUPER-Bonus Question:
13. Did the victim have an orgasm?
a. Hell No!
b. Almost…
c. Yes
d. Yes, and it was the best orgasm ever!
e. Other_________