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Manarus · 12-03-2022, 04:40 PM

Maybe, BDSM is like alcohol.

I drink, when the situation is fun, when I am in a good mood, to get an even better mood. To enjoy the evening and the moment. Of course I could enjoy the moment without alcohol, but alcohol is a mood amplificator.

I wouldn't drink when I feel bad, to make me feel better. Or to numb me. I would not take drugs to distract me, but find other ways to deal with my problems.

Maybe BDSM is like alcohol. Use it to get more from life. To enjoy it from its full extend. But do not (ab)use it to flee from your problems. Somewhen you have to face them anyways.

On the other hand, a quite restraining and painful session gives me the feeling of freedom afterwards, and makes me feel quite good.

12-03-2022, 04:40 PM	#15
Manarus Distinguished Member Join Date: May 2017 Location: Bavaria (Germany) Posts: 695 Blog Entries: 38	Maybe, BDSM is like alcohol. I drink, when the situation is fun, when I am in a good mood, to get an even better mood. To enjoy the evening and the moment. Of course I could enjoy the moment without alcohol, but alcohol is a mood amplificator. I wouldn't drink when I feel bad, to make me feel better. Or to numb me. I would not take drugs to distract me, but find other ways to deal with my problems. Maybe BDSM is like alcohol. Use it to get more from life. To enjoy it from its full extend. But do not (ab)use it to flee from your problems. Somewhen you have to face them anyways. On the other hand, a quite restraining and painful session gives me the feeling of freedom afterwards, and makes me feel quite good. __________________ Likes: Bondage, Spanking, mild Pain, Pee, Anal, Outdoor, Wax/Ice, Positions, Pet, Hidden Be careful: Long Term, Denial/forced Orgasm, Cum Eating, Poo, Heavy Pain, Rules, Bladder Control Limits: Permanent, Blood, Non-Consensual, Public, Shaving, Sissification, Time Wasting Toys: Ropes, Whips, Clothpins, Plugs, ... See my full Likes, Dislikes, Limits & my Toys Current Rules and TODOs PM Dares!