[alex_af1996]

Originally Posted by maccas

I recently tried it out with a domme, in the end it wasn't a good fit for me and or i am not ready for the lifestyle right now.

Part of the problem was punishments. I understand the need and the purpose of punishments, however do you think they should still be 'enjoyable' to an extent.

For example i was made to lick my dirty shoe for 5 minutes. I understand the punishment and it was relevant to what i had done, but by the 2 minute mark i was just bored. Same with line writing, i started and it was just boring to me.

Is it more of an aquired taste, or is the point of the punishment for you to not get anyting from it at all? Maybe it is a preference thing. Or maybe thats more of a lifestyle domme thing where it isnt necersarily sexual.

I havent really left an easy question, but what is everyones thoughts on the matter, should punishments be enjoyable to an extent/not boring or should punishments just be something you dont want to do?

Depending on the domme but punishments should be something you don’t want to do again so you won’t slip up again but in saying that some punishments should be rewarding for your domme to see