Oh hello there fellow rope bunny! Eeeppp that harness is the first one I learned too, but I practiced it before I showed Master the first time. I would caution you though... from reading it sounds like you were alone bound overnight? ***DANGEROUS*** Please please be careful. We all think it csnt happen, but it can. Points to a fellow GD member whose family had a house fire out of nowhere. You need EMT scissors within reach and never ever asleep alone.
But fun part:
Crotch and harness without neck involvement..
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https://www.ropeconnections.com/crotch-ropes/
https://youtu.be/9Sxn-SBGPt4 love this one!!!
https://youtu.be/b14kF4C1tzY
Anything can be altered to fit over shoulder instead of over neck. I will work on a tie then ask Master permission to take pics step by step for you. Sorry to pry, but chest size? Over or under bra or no bra?
Edit: I just saw the video one... damn that is awesome. I could alter THAT to be over the shoulder but I need to know how much play you need in the shoulders. As always *looks pleadingly at Master* I want THAT rope... uhhhhh so pretty!!!
~ Hiraeth