[Reeve.]

If she isn't "in the mood" you can either try to understand what changed and fix the dynamic or take a break until she's ready to continue.
I don't think that there is any point in putting efforts if she's not receptive.

As for moving out, it depends of you. The fact that finding someone is hard shouldn't impact your decision of leaving. If you are unhappy with your current dynamic and can't fix it, you should consider moving out.