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Originally Posted by Butterfly
We cannot prevent somebody from saying they are male or female, especially in today's society where your gender is not reflective of how you were born physically. It is not our responsibility to make sure that people are telling the truth. That onus is on the person who is going to share their personal and intimate details with them.
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So, lets say I (as cis man) post an ad saying I am a female looking for a man. I refuse to verify but demand pics from the men responding to my ad. One way or another I get outed by someone (perhaps because they read this post where I say I'm a cis man) and this person tells everyone else here. Are my actions perfectly fine with you and can I keep on posting here? Keep in mind I lied about who I am and made people feel very unsafe in the end.
Sure, people have their own responsibility and that should not be forgotten. But I feel once a person has been proven to be fake (or is obviously fake) this site and the moderators to have responsibilities as well.