Do you think the very binary way people think about the concept of "virginity" still makes sense today? (Penis in vagina sex means not a virgin anymore)
No I dont. Especially the different way a girl is treated more so than the boys
To you, do these count as losing your virginity? Explanation encouraged
Anal?
Somewhat. Its still sex. Kind of a backdoor loophole.
Oral? (Blowjobs/Cunillingus)
NO,but it is a gateway to losing it
Masturbation, using just your hands?
No
Masturbation, aided by toys?
NO
Anal/vaginal penetration with toys?
NO
Masturbation/Toy Penetration (administered by someone else)?
I would say yes,if someone is that clsoe ,may as well go and ahead and do it.
How connected is virginity to innocence?
It is somewhat connected as long as your still at the point where you can claim innocence. Cant be 40 still a virgin and claim innocence.
What is your perception of virginity?
Someone who is pure. has had any sexual encounters and saving themselves for marriage.
Do you consider yourself to be a virgin, based on your idea of virginity?
NO,that boat sailed when I was 14