[LitDarkness]

Originally Posted by tyragon123

Do you think the very binary way people think about the concept of "virginity" still makes sense today? (Penis in vagina sex means not a virgin anymore)It does not and never had made sex. To me having sex for the first time is losing your virginity.

To you, do these count as losing your virginity? Explanation encouraged

• Anal?Yes.
• Oral? (Blowjobs/Cunillingus)Yes.
• Masturbation, using just your hands?No, another person isn't doing it to you.
• Masturbation, aided by toys?No, see above.
• Anal/vaginal penetration with toys?Possibly, you doing it yourself or someone else to you. The first is no while the other is yes.
• Masturbation/Toy Penetration (administered by someone else)?Absolutely.

How connected is virginity to innocence?It's not. It's sex. Sex isn't a bad thing.

What is your perception of virginity?I don't think it's stupid as it is part of my beliefs but, I don't thinkl it should be regarded as innocent or something to strive not to have. It's sex. Is it something you want or is the sex consensual? If yes, I don't care what you do regarding losing or keeping it.

Do you consider yourself to be a virgin, based on your idea of virginity?

Yes, I do consider myself a virgin.