Do you think the very binary way people think about the concept of "virginity" still makes sense today? (Penis in vagina sex means not a virgin anymore)
For me losing virginity is either penetrating or being penetrated. So I lost my virginity with vaginal penetration when I was 15 and my anal penetration, me being top, at 23 and then again me being bottom at 23.
I don't consider oral sex losing virginity, nor is masturbation.
I have no idea how to classify women together who use toys on each other and where one or both never had sex with a man.
To you, do these count as losing your virginity? Explanation encouraged
- Anal?
- Oral? (Blowjobs/Cunillingus)
- Masturbation, using just your hands?
- Masturbation, aided by toys?
- Anal/vaginal penetration with toys?
- Masturbation/Toy Penetration (administered by someone else)?
How connected is virginity to innocence?
Not connected at all. I was very innocent when I lost my virginity.
What is your perception of virginity?
It's a ridiculous norm as it's touted as something to strive to hold onto but with no real good explanation as to why.
Do you consider yourself to be a virgin, based on your idea of virginity?
No.