Below you see my answers. The ones I marked red were either a limit for me or fall under the Dislike categorie. When I put an "X" behind an answer it means, that I can quite imagine this option but I would prefer to not do / include this or put at the end of my favorite list. The green answers are my favorite ones and I either have done them or want to do them in the future. In addition I wrote some further informations to some of the points, whether because I already did it or because I have fantasized about it.
So without further ado here we go. I hope you enjoy them.
I Core information
1. Age: 20
2. Name: Emily
3. Het, Bi or Lez? Bi
4. Who you've fantasised about humiliating you?:
Your Owner
X
Someone with power over you (
doctor, teacher, relatives, friends)
Someone you owe money or a favour
Someone who you need something from
X
Any man or woman who your Owner lends you to
X
Your blackmailer
Your rapist
X
Your abductor
Anyone higher than you in the slave hierarchy
! (
What turns me on is not just, when someone is higher than me [in the slave hierarchy or somewhere else] but also if the one humiliating me is generally lower than me in the social hierarchy. For example a girl or boy which is younger than me or - assuming a scenario at school with teacher and students - that the students humiliate their teacher, even if in general the teacher has a higher standing in society than the students.)
5. At what age did you have your first humiliation experience or realised that humiliation made you wet?
I think it must have been in the age of 14. My class and I were on vacation and at the place we visited they just have had communal showers. The communal shower for the women had a window right below the ceiling and when I lay in bed after taking a shower I was fantasizing about the boys of the class doing a leg-up and spying through this window, watching me while I was naked and showering and seeing all of my private parts. Even if I couldn't classify this feeling I quite liked it.
II List of Humiliations
Indicate what numbers in this list turn you on. Add exclamation marks (!) if it makes your face glow red and your cunt drip uncontrollably.
1. Being Controlled / Owned
Being ordered around
Being made to perform tasks
Being denied orgasm
Not being permitted to wear panties (
I really like to go commando in public, whether it is without panties or without bra and in particular when I'm wearing just a dress or a short skirt and a tight blouse. Only my concern is, if you do it too often, you get used to it and it looses its thrill. So I think a level of variety is necessary. For example it also can be very humiliating when you're wearing a thong and it looks out of your pants so that everyone can see what you are wearing underneath. The same thing goes for the numbers 5 and 7.)
Not being permitted to wear a bra
Being told what clothes to wear every day
Having to be naked in the house
Being told what you are allowed to eat
X
Being told when and where you can sleep
Having to eat off the floor
!
Having to crawl on all fours
Having to ask before you can go pee
!
Having to pee outside
!
Having to wear a collar to show that you're owned
! (
Not just at home but also in public. i.e. a real dog collar)
Being tattooed to show you're owned
Having to answer any questions from your owner fully and honestly
2. Being put on display
Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes at home
!
Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes in public
! (
Especially when I'm just wearing a thin top and not just my boobs, which are a bit soft, wiggling around a bit with every step but also my nipples pointing through the shirt whether they are hard or not.)
Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes at work
! (
A fantasy of mine is, that I am working as a waitress and have to wear a tight blouse and a short skirt without bra and panty. So every time I have to lean forward [when I want to take the order or clean up the table], the guests in front of me can look right into my cleavage and see my boobs and the guest behind me can see my bare ass an my pussy.)
Having to bare your tits, ass or cunt in a public place
!
Being made to dress in a costume for him (
schoolgirl, maid, etc)
Being stripped naked in front of people your Owner invites round (
The emphasis is on "being" - I don't do it myself)
Being made to masturbate in front of people your Owner invites round
Having pictures of you posted onto the web
X
Being put on display as a whore in a shop window
3. Being treated as a sex object
Being casually groped by your Owner whenever s/he wants
Being groped in public by your Owner
Being groped in public by a complete stranger
!
Being treated as nothing but a set of holes
!
Being treated as nothing more than a pair of big tits
!
Being fucked as hard and as roughly as possible
!
Having to take it up your ass
Having to take it down your throat
Being slapped across your face with his hard cock
Being used as a cumbucket or cumrag (
Preferably more a rag than a bucket)
Being gang-banged
Being whored out
Being used as a party favour
! (
A fantasy of mine is, for example, without my knowledge on my 18th birthday party or at the highschool prom)
Being used in a glory hole or adult theatre
Being raped
4. Being verbally degraded
Being talked to in a condescending manner
Being talked to in a rude and arrogant fashion
Being called dirty
Being called a slut
!
Being called a whore
Being called worthless
Being called stupid
X
Being called a cunt
Being called a bitch
Being called a pig
Being called a cow
!
Being talked about to others
!
Being talked about to others as if you're not there
!
Having
every one of the above and more names written on your body
!
Making you agree with and repeat back the names you are being called
!
5. Being physically hurt
Having your hair pulled
Having your face slapped
Having your tits slapped
Having your cunt slapped
!
Having your nipples pinched or clamped (
More than this, I adore to be guided around just by pulling on my nipples !)
Being bent over and having your ass spanked
6. Being disciplined
Being castigated for doing something incorrectly
Being scolded like a naughty girl
Having to write lines
X
Having to stand in the corner
X
Being made to apologise for your behaviour
X
Having to bare your bottom, bend over and wait for your punishment
Having to count out each spank or stroke as it lands on your bottom
!
Having to stand in the corner with your red punished ass on display
7. Being treated as unimportant
Having your views mocked, belittled or ignored
Having your feelings mocked, belittled or ignored
Having your time deliberately wasted
Being ignored altogether
Treating your work or career as trivial or unimportant
Him reminding you of your feminist beliefs as he orders you around like a maid
Having your needs ignored in favour of your Owner's
! (
I like it, because it always reminds me, that it's not important what my body want/ which signals it sends but what my owner wants at this very moment)
Being told your only purpose in life is to serve your Owner
8. Having your orgasm controlled
Having to ask permission before you can cum
Being restricted to humping household objects as your only means of cumming.
! (
I do this often to higher the level of difficulty. So I become creative and looking for things I haven't humped before.)
Being made to edge throughout the day to keep your cunt wet and ready
Having to ask permission to touch your cunt
Being locked in a chastity belt
Being denied orgasm for days or weeks or months at a time (
I always try to have just one orgasm per month. It's really hard and I don't accomplish it always. The rest of the days I'm just allowed to edge. A nice effect, beside keeping my cunt wet the hole time, is, that I become extreme naughty and do things I never had done with a clear mind.)
Only getting cock in your mouth or ass
! (
Also a nice thing, which I have already tried some times and denied my pussy that way.)
9. Being shamed about your body
Being told you're too fat
Being told your tits are too small
Being told you're ugly
Being inspected and having your flaws pointed out to you
! (
Especially when combined with number I.4.9)
Being compared to other women and told how you fail to measure up !
10. Physical Constraints as a means of humiliation
Having your hands cuffed behind your back
! (
It sounds not as funny as it seems, but your normal live as well as kinky dares and tasks get way more challenging and make more fun, when you have to do them with your hands cuffed behind your back.)
Being kept in chains
Being gagged to stop you talking
Being gagged with an O-ring so your mouth and throat can be fucked
! (
and I constantly drooling on my boobs and body)
Being tied up naked with your legs spread so you can be used at will
Being kept locked up in a cage when you're not in use (
in a very very tiny cage please, ideally together with another female)
11. Making you do demeaning and disgusting things ! (
my favorite category)
Being spat on
Making you piss
on yourself
!
Being pissed on or in
!
Having to swallow your Owner's piss
Having piss in or over your food
!
Having cum in or over your food
!
Having you go out in public with cum over your face
! (
One of my most beloved fantasies. But I think, till I reach this level of desperation it's still a long way to go.)
Having you spend the day with cum in your bra and panties
! (
A nice method to always remind me on my place. And just my Owner and I would know it.)
Being gagged with your used panties
! (
And not just my panties 
)
Being fucked with a paper bag over your head
Being fucked with your used panties over your head
Being fucked with your head in the toilet
!
Making you lick the toilet seat clean
!
Making you hump the toilet
!
Having your Owner sit on your face
Having a toilet brush shoved up your cunt or asshole to clean it
Making you lick his/her shoes clean
Making you lovingly lick and kiss your Owners feet and toes
Being hosed down like an animal
!
Being made to lie in mud
!
Being made to spend the night in the barn
12. Controlling your other relationships
Having your private life discussed with family, friends, work colleagues
!
Having intimate pictures of you shown to family, friends or work colleagues
! (
I call this type of humiliation "social suicide". For me it's one of my most extreme fantasies, because you not just ruin your social status in front of a select group of people which can classify your behavior as what it is [a sexual fantasy], no, you ruin your entire life and your social status in front of everyone you know. And this is nothing you can repair easily. You step over a "point of no return", tearing down all bridges to your previous life. To imagine the disappointment in my parents eyes, when they realize what a piece of trash her daughter has become, makes me on the one hand feel embarrassed and humiliated as fuck but on the other hand dripping wet. But even if I adore this fantasy and I get dripping wet instantly, I never would even think about doing it in my real life.)
Making you have sex with your friends or work colleagues
Making you help arrange sex for your Owner with family, friends or work colleagues
Giving him/her access to all your computer accounts - email, facebook, blogs
13. Raceplay
Having your race treated as inferior
X
Being made to fuck other races who you wouldn't normally
X
Being called racially insulting names
14. Gender play as humiliation
Making you have sex with a woman if you're straight (
see I.3)
Making you have sex with a man if you're a lesbian (
see I.3)
Treating all women as inferior to men
!
15. Your position in your relationship
Letting your Owner have sex with other women
Having to watch or listen to him/her have sex with another
Being denied sex while your Owner has as much sex as they want
X
Being told by your Owner how much more s/he enjoys sex with the other woman
Having to move into the spare room because his lover is now in your room
Having to clean his lover's home as well as yours
X
Having to buy her clothes, gifts and jewellery
Having to clean her cunt and his cock with your mouth after they've made love
!
Being humiliated by your Owner's lover for being inferior to her
X
Not even having a Owner: you're just the live-in maid for another couple
16. Generic Humiliation
Being laughed at
Being told by your owner what s/he intends doing to you next
X (
For me it's more thrilling when I don't know what will happen next to me and don't have time to think about it. So I have to act immediately along my natural instincts.)
Being told that making you feel mortified makes his cock hard
Having to beg him for something you need or want
Having to beg him _not_ to make you do something you don't want to do
! (
To beg and humiliate myself [in hope of him showing mercy] without knowing, if my begging and self humiliation will help)
Being humiliated to tears (
I have never experienced this, but it would interests me wich level of humiliation I can handle and at which level of humiliation I have to start crying. And I'm speaking of the mental/ social level, not of the pain level.)
Being encouraged to cry because it turns your Owner on
Having to thank you the person after they've hurt or used you
!
Having to say sorry to your Owner even when it's not your fault
X
Being taunted because your cunt gets wet when you are humiliated
!
III Additional Info
What do you look like? I'm 1,70m tall, my weight is 60kg, I have blonde hair which reaches down till my waist and blue eyes. The size of my breasts is a 70C (23B in US when I converted it right). I would describe my stature something in between normal and slim. My pubes are always shaved completely.
What race / ethnicity / nationality are you? I'm a white european girl. More specific: central / east europe.
Are you shy or outgoing? I can act both ways, but in general I'm more outgoing than shy.
Are you religious? (if so, what faith?) Yes, I'm christian.
Are you a virgin? No
If the answer to 5 is no, then how many men or women have you had sex with and which of your holes have they fucked? As "having sex" I just count intercourse where a guy fucked me in my pussy or my ass or I eat out a girl (or she eats me out). All in all about 5 (not many, unfortunately) Most of the guys just fucked me in my pussy and I gave them a blowjob in addition. Just one or two fucked me in the ass. I also have made out with 2 girls. Besides this I gave some other guys just a blowjob without they fucking me. I don't know the exact number any more but I think, it's about 7 guys maybe.