[Sex Speed Runner]

First of all good luck to you with your new partner!

I know how it feels trying to introduce someone to your kinks, as I had to do it with my girlfriend, and it took me some time to be able to tell her everything. She still doesn't know about this site, more because It would come across as unfaithful to her not that I'm ashamed.

When you start to feel comfortable, maybe try slowly introduce her to one of your kinks, for example, I told my girlfriend that I enjoy being edged, and made to wait before I get to cum. This was new to her, but she tried doing it and we worked on getting it right, and now she enjoys teasing me. At that stage you can start to introduce more things, like then I mentioned chastity cages etc...

At the same time, give her an opportunity to experience her kinks, even if it's not something you think you'd be into, give it a go, make her feel comfortable sharing hers. At that point you may open up to each other, and take turns trying each others kinks and having fun, that way you can work out whats best for the both of you.

At the end of the day you should be comfortable sharing this information with your partner, and if they're not into it then maybe it wont work out. If you feel judged at all or are worried shell find it weird, don't, because if your into something and dont get to experience it then you wont be happy long term.

Considering one of your likes is giving up control, maybe that could be where to start. Giver her a coupon that says something along the lines of 'the bearer of this coupon gets to be in control of me for one day', and explain to her that you'll do whatever she says wether its how you dress, where you go, what you eat or wether its sexual related to. and then afterwards say 'hey, today was fun, we should do it more often'

Hope this helps!