Though I vastly prefer to be a sub, I have dommed via IM with a woman who lives half a world away. It started out that we role played, but as we went deeper into fantasy she found that she really wanted to play. That is when we decided that I would top her over text.
It started off simple, with her sneaking off on breaks to masturbate in the rest room while keeping in touch by sending me messages with her phone. We played this way fairly often but before each session we would talk about our lives and at the end of each session I made sure she was okay.
Things went much further than that and it saddens me that due to our schedules I haven't played with her for months. However it goes to show what a difference knowing a person first and then playing is.
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