Due to circumstances beyond my control, I have been unable to find IRL partners for most of the my time here, hence I am in the weird situation of having a lot of experience online, but none IRL (
) That may change soon (well, relatively, like within the next couple years) how good is Fet for a (real-life) newbie getting in on the kink scene and maybe eventually finding a partner. I'm assuming going to munches and BDSM parties would help with that?