I'll answer point by point:
1. Sex toys: I'd definitely buy a remote controllable vibrator, something you can control over the Internet (so we could control you, tease you etc. ) And I *love* your ideas. For clamps you have a wide variety (magnetic, with weight, etc.) Try them, if you can, and see what calls your attention. Of course, do buy the ones you mention
2. I loved this paragraph (so I sent you a pm - but forgot to mention the blackmail rp):
This gives space for MUCH play
3. Anal: I'm no expert, but doing it with LOTS of lube and when you're *VERY* horny, will help you to feel it better, from what I know
4. For edging, I'm bad myself, but never tried to really train. One thing you can do to try and not cum so easily is to get to edge and stop right before you cum. Just practice more and more, and with time you'll be able to anticipate when you're about to edge (instead of when you're about to cum).
5. I love a good kinky girl into BDSM
Hope to play with you soon!
And I'll leave you with a dare (easy one to get things started):
next time you edge, do it covered in humiliating bodywriting. To choose bodywriting, either ask here or roll a faproulette about bodywriting.
See you!
GWD