I Core information
1. Age?
22
2. Name?
Zeph
3. Sexuality?
Pansexual
4. Who you've fantasised about humiliating you? Pick one or more options from the list below:
Your Owner personal favorite
Someone with power over you (doctor, teacher, boss, friend, bully)
Someone you owe money or favour
Someone who you need something from
Any person who your Owner lends you to
Your blackmailer
Your rapist
Your abductor
Anyone higher than you in the slave hierarchy
5. At what age did you have your first humiliation experience or realize that humiliation made you wet?
II List of Humiliations
1. Being Controlled / Owned
Being ordered around
Being made to perform tasks
Being denied orgasm
Not being permitted to wear underwear
the top four are personal favorites
Being told what clothes to wear every day
Having to be naked in the house
Being told what you are allowed to eat
Being told when and where you can sleep
limit
Having to eat off the floor
limit
Having to crawl on all fours
Having to ask before you can go pee makes me wet
Having to pee outside
limit
Having to wear a collar to show that you're owned makes me wet
Being tattooed to show you're owned
Having to answer any questions from your owner fully and honestly turn on
2. Being put on display
Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes at home
Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes in public
Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes at work
limit
Having to expose yourself in a public place
limit
Being made to dress in a costume
Being stripped naked in front of people your Owner invites round
Being made to masturbate in front of people your Owner invites round
Having pictures of you posted onto the web
Being put on display as a whore in a shop window
3. Being treated as a sex object
Being casually groped by your Owner whenever they want
Being groped in public by your Owner
Yes as long as limits and safe words have been worked out beforehand.
Being groped in public by a complete stranger
not into sexual assault
Being treated as nothing but a sex toy
Being fucked as hard and as roughly as possible
Having to take it up your ass
Having to take it down your throat
Being slapped across your face with a hard cock
Being used as a cumbucket or cumrag
Being gang-banged
Being whored out
Being used as a party favour
Being used in a glory hole or adult theatre
These as long as it's being done/supervised by my Dominant with established safewords
Being raped
HARD LIMIT
4. Being verbally degraded
Being talked to in a condescending manner
Being talked to in a rude and arrogant fashion
For me respect is a two way street. A Dominant must earn my respect.
Being called degrading names Love this during play but outside of play is a turn off for me.
Being talked about to others
Being talked about to others as if you're not there
Having degrading names/words written on your body
Making you agree with and repeat back the names you are being called
5. Being physically hurt
Having your hair pulled
Having your face slapped
Having your tits slapped
Having your cunt slapped
Having your nipples pinched or clamped
Being bent over and having your ass spanked
I LOVE being spanked and the others, everything in moderation. As long as it's not too painful.
6. Being disciplined
Being castigated for doing something incorrectly
Being scolded
Having to write lines
Having to stand in the corner
Being made to apologise for your behaviour
I'd only do this if I did something egregious
Having to bare your bottom, bend over and wait for your punishment
Having to count out each spank or stroke as it lands on your bottom
Having to stand in the corner with your red punished ass on display
I'm not sure if spanking is an effective punishment for me but still love it.
7. Being treated as unimportant
Having your views mocked, belittled or ignored
Having your feelings mocked, belittled or ignored
Having your time deliberately wasted
Being ignored altogether
Treating your work or career as trivial or unimportant
Having your needs ignored in favour of your Owner's
Being told your only purpose in life is to serve your Owner
Again respect is a two way street. If you want my respect, you have to respect me. END. OF. STORY.
8. Having your orgasm controlled
Having to ask permission before you can cum
Being restricted to humping household objects as your only means of cumming.
Being made to edge throughout the day
Having to ask permission to touch yourself
Being locked in chastity
Being denied orgasm for days or weeks or months at a time (specify length)
Only getting cock in your mouth or ass
Yes. All of these. Love it.
9. Being shamed about your body
Being told you're too fat
Being told your tits/cock are/is too small
Being told you're ugly
Being inspected and having your flaws pointed out to you
Being compared to others and told how you fail to measure up
I am severely insecure about my body so this would probably make me begin to self harm again and my Dominant should not want that. They should want me to be happy and healthy which means not suicidal.
10. Physical Constraints as a means of humiliation
Having your hands cuffed behind your back
Being kept in chains
Being gagged to stop you talking
Being gagged with an O-ring so your mouth and throat can be fucked
Being tied up naked with your legs spread so you can be used at will
Love this while playing
Being kept locked up in a cage when you're not in use
11. Making you do demeaning and disgusting things
Being spat on
Making you piss yourself
Being pissed on or in
Having to swallow your Owner's piss
Having piss in or over your food
I don't eat or drink piss.
Having cum in or over your food
Having you go out in public with cum over your face
Having you spend the day with cum in your underwear Could be hot
Being gagged with your used underwear
Being fucked with a paper bag over your head
Being fucked with your used underwear over your head
Being fucked with your head in the toilet
Making you lick the toilet seat clean
Hygiene is too important for me
Making you hump the toilet
Having your Owner sit on your faceAs long as they've cleaned down there
Being fucked with a toilet brush
Ouch
Making you lick their shoes clean
Making you lovingly lick and kiss your Owners feet and toes Sure why not
Being hosed down like an animal
Being made to lie in mud
Being made to spend the night in the barn
Again with the hygiene
12. Controlling your other relationships
Having your private life discussed with family, friends or work colleagues
Having intimate pictures of you shown to family, friends or work colleagues
Making you have sex with your friends or work colleagues
Making you help arrange sex for your Owner with family, friends or work colleagues
Giving them access to all your computer accounts - email, facebook, blogs
This stuff just doesn't seem healthy to me.
13. Your position in your relationship
Letting your Owner have sex with others
Having to watch or listen to them have sex with another
Being denied sex while your Owner has as much sex as they want
Being told by your Owner how much more they enjoy sex with their lover
Having to move into the spare room because their lover is now in your room
Having to clean their lover's home as well as yours
Having to buy their lover gifts
Having to clean both their genitals with your mouth after they've made love
Being humiliated by your Owner's lover for being inferior to them
Not even having a Owner: you're just the live-in housekeeper for another couple
I would prefer a monogamous relationship but my Dominant would be allowed to whore me out (as long as limits and safewords have been worked out in advanced)
14. Generic Humiliation
Being laughed at
Being told by your owner what they intend on doing to you next
Being told that making you feel mortified arouses them
Having to beg for something you need or want Make me beg to cum
Having to beg not to do something you don't want to do
Limits are limits
Being humiliated to tears
Don't like crying and my Dominant should not want to see me cry
Being encouraged to cry because it turns your Owner on
Having to thank you the person after they've hurt or used you
Only for using me.
Having to say sorry to your Owner even when it's not your fault
Apologies should mean something, never given out freely.
Being taunted because you get aroused when you are humiliated
III Additional Info (Optional)
What do you look like?
Petite, chubby, shoulder length caramel hair, deep blue eyes. 38 DDD
Are you shy or outgoing?
Shy until I get to know you.
Are you religious? (if so, what faith?)
Yes, pagan witch
Are you a virgin?
Never had vaginal penetration so yes.