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I'm worried that discussing that has made me feel more needy and vulnerable at a time when he can't give me the support and attention that I need and it's having an impact on my emotions
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Discussing issues is always a chance to feel vulnerable, it can feel like the work is going to beat you for asking.... but isn't like that, personally kudos for your Dom for saying that he had personal problems. Is easy to just use the "s" type.
What you must understand about yourself, is that you don't "need" a Dom, you "want" a Dom, so give yourself a treath, take a long bath, do something you like, you are been a respectful person and a great human being, and that's something to praise.
Do something for you, you deserve it, and more for asking.