[BoundBoy69]

I also was on this site a lot as a teen. I would imagine myself as the person doing the dare. As I got older and more comfortable with my sexuality I started actually doing the dares. I have transitioned to mostly looking for people to do things with in person which is why I am not on this site as much as I used to be.

Don't ignore your desires. (Unless illegal) They are a part of who you are. You might find that once you have done a fantasy it no longer is something that you desire.

My boyfriend of 2 years and I talk openly about the types of porn and fantasies we read. It helps us know what to do when playing with each other.

I'm into a lot more kinky stuff than he is. He has tried it with me but neither of us were really satisfied with the experience. Eventually we decided that I should meet up with other people for bondage play whilst reserving romantic activities for when he is around.

We basically treat my kinks like any other hobby. I let him read any of the conversations that I have with playmates if he wants and he always knows before I go play with someone.

As for your situation the advice is the same as any other relationship question, share how you feel with your partner. If they make you feel bad for feeling the way you do they probably are not someone to spend your life with.