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Originally Posted by MissyK
Oo that's a great point!
Also, subs who treat me like a fucking person. I am SO tired of being seen as a fetish dispenser. Subs who have seen me play, liked my specific style, and are respectful when reaching out to see if I'm interested are green flags all the way
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Omg this. How many parties have I been to, and had great impact play with my sub, and someone steps in 'me next pls pls pls' and want the same connection, think they can do exactly what was just done.
I am into a lot of tpe, cnc and I like loyalty and honesty, self awareness. Yes, you do have limits, no matter how hard you don't want them and want to feel fully owned.
I would rather a sub tell me they want to give over all control but are scared to, that they don't think they can do this and that, trust in me (yes, this takes time) and that they will do their best.