I am starting to think there is a necessity for two types of likes/limits etc lists, one for strangers you casually play with and one for a close Dom. Not that my LE experiences had my limits stated anyway, but it had me think. For example when I didn't include scarification in my limits, I was thinking that it's something that I could easily do for my Dom if it was required, not that it has ever been, but for a random strangers it's really not worth it for so many reasons.
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