[IceMaiden]

Originally Posted by csuju

Respectful (though bratty subs break this a bit ofc)

Either you haven't dealt with a brat before but a little shit or you have little to no experience with genuine brats or very few... I do not break being respectful and yet I am a brat. Please don't generalize. We get enough bad rep that we are bad submissives, disrespectful etc.

Back on topic...

Note: This is only what I personally look for in a sub (and I am not looking)

Honesty
Willing to communicate
Willing to at least try things (Not limits obviously.)
Humorous.
Self aware
Bratty (Not disobedient/disrespectful)
Able to talk outside of kink
Open to friendship first
Submissive not a doormat
Will say if there is an issue (Guess that falls under communication)
Loyalty