Hey MusicalMoans,
Welcome to getDare!!!
I guess a good place to start would be edging!
Edging is where you bring yourself to the edge of orgasm but you stop stroking just before you cum.
See how many edges you can do before you decide you can not hold back any more.
Let us know how many edges you did and enjoy your eventual orgasm. I assume you like orgasms haha.
Enjoy
C4E.