I think you're 100% right on your entire list; the site could totally use a makeover to become more updated with the times. Specifically, if I could only pick one change to make, it would have to be the chatting/private messaging system.  Folks really shouldn't feel the need to take their conversations offsite so strongly; to save constant headaches, I'd wish for it to have a more convenient format.
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✧ 19/F | Constantly wet | Looking for dares ✧
Likes: Masturbation-instruction, humiliation, punishment, exercise
Dislikes: Anal, intense pain, hypnosis, ice, repetitive tasks, denial
Limits: Permanent, period, full-public, family, illegal, social suicide, pics/video/voice
When giving dares, please note that I don't have a clit
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