I could fit the description of how you described your date. My opinion is that the age difference is only an issue if it is an issue. The reason why large age differences are discouraged is because people of different age groups tend to not have as much in common and also because they are at different stages of growth.
My biggest concern is the fact that you said you grew up in an oppressive home. Being older, he will most likely have a take charge attitude in the relationship, something that you suggested you wanted to get away from. That isn't an automatic disqualification, but it is something you should be wary of.
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