Hmm... ok. I'm not happy that this thread has so few replies and none aimed at the question. *c'mon site we can do better than that.*
Hi there. Great question. I'm Hiraeth, and I'm in a ldr online Master/ slave relationship. What I do to help Master in a non kink non sex way completely depends on what's going on in his life.
I have in the past:
Made voice recordings, done research, looked for funny videos, made him things like artwork or even a pillow, sent him pictures of my day, included a gift from him under the Christmas tree, sat quietly, been patient when he needed alone time, learned about his interests, watched sports events online together, looked up info about his home country, learned words from his mother language, sung him songs, recorded me reading to my own kid, bought non sexy clothes with his preferences in mind, posted online my feelings about him just so he knew I want to tell the world how much he means to me. Oh, made a digital banner as a surprise for him. It includes a ton of references to things I know are important to him.
I have in other relationships: painted a room a color similar to my dominant's, made grocery lists and meal plans, called real estate agents, problem solved financial issues, audited an online course ( phD level) to help a Sir with his classwork, sent money ONCE when someone was about to have to drop a class ( yes, I was paid back), I'm sure there is lots more.
So... basically just do anything to say: I see YOU non kink you. I care about YOU. I will spend of my time, energy, resources on YOU, because you are important to me.
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