It's always interesting to read here - even though staying without orgasms for so long is crazy.
@bee9: I think you're wrong. Mostly because, no matter what, kink is still something to be discussed and negotiated with the people involved, and if they're all fine with where the relationship is at the moment...
Your opinions on kinks and labels and whatnot may differ, but there's no real need to convince others they're "doing it wrong" and should change their ways.
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