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Originally Posted by Playthingtoy

I would like my parter to be more into bdsm but she is not. How can I get her into this and really dominate and humiliate me for her pleasure.

Try to talk to her, and read her reactions. But you should be prepared for 2 possibilities: either she's into or she's not. If she is into it, then you're the very lucky one. After that, go slow, ask her to join some kinky community websites, watch kinky porn with her etc.

If she's not into kink, then she will never be into kink. That's very sad but true. Some vanilla can't be made kinky, no matter how hard you try. It will be then up to you to decide to stay vanilla, or to leave and find a compatible kinky partner.