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Kitten · 08-08-2018, 09:07 AM

For me, these were the things that got me to become more comfortable.

1. If you don't ask, you don't get. And you'd only have yourself to blame.
2. No matter how "despicable" I turn out to be, that's still me - so it's better to face it and better myself if I'm not happy with it, or I find it's not horrible at all and am pleasantly surprised.
3. The only GUARANTEE of staying unhappy is by never even trying. 50/50 at becoming happy or 100% for sure staying frustrated is not an easy choice (in terms of carrying it out), but it's not a complicated one.

08-08-2018, 09:07 AM	#14
Kitten The One & Only Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Gehenna Posts: 1,215 Blog Entries: 2	For me, these were the things that got me to become more comfortable. 1. If you don't ask, you don't get. And you'd only have yourself to blame. 2. No matter how "despicable" I turn out to be, that's still me - so it's better to face it and better myself if I'm not happy with it, or I find it's not horrible at all and am pleasantly surprised. 3. The only GUARANTEE of staying unhappy is by never even trying. 50/50 at becoming happy or 100% for sure staying frustrated is not an easy choice (in terms of carrying it out), but it's not a complicated one.