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SubbyFootFetishist · 07-30-2018, 06:55 AM

Thank you, Master P!

Actually, I've already been trying some of your advice! We talked in depth, about this thread, bdsm in general, what we both wanted, etc. Even though we've been together awhile, it's a good idea to revisit this stuff. Things change, yeah?

Anyways, it turns out that she wants to be dominated more! I've been obliging and she loves it, as do I! Even though I'm primarily a sub, I have a good deal of switch in me.

Additionally, we found that she was worried about being this image of a domme that she sees online, in porn videos and such. I told her that I didn't really care about that sort of shit. I'm not interested in some online super-goddess. I want *her* to be dominant, whatever that is.

She's really changed a lot since we talked - she tends to be a fairly gentle sort with her domination, but she gets *super* mean when she's turned on, which is pretty fun for me!

So, in short, we're working on it, things are better, etc. Thank you all SO SO MUCH for your responses in this thread. They've been a huge help! <3

07-30-2018, 06:55 AM	#12
SubbyFootFetishist Member Join Date: Jan 2018 Posts: 51 Blog Entries: 1	Thank you, Master P! Actually, I've already been trying some of your advice! We talked in depth, about this thread, bdsm in general, what we both wanted, etc. Even though we've been together awhile, it's a good idea to revisit this stuff. Things change, yeah? Anyways, it turns out that she wants to be dominated more! I've been obliging and she loves it, as do I! Even though I'm primarily a sub, I have a good deal of switch in me. Additionally, we found that she was worried about being this image of a domme that she sees online, in porn videos and such. I told her that I didn't really care about that sort of shit. I'm not interested in some online super-goddess. I want her to be dominant, whatever that is. She's really changed a lot since we talked - she tends to be a fairly gentle sort with her domination, but she gets super mean when she's turned on, which is pretty fun for me! So, in short, we're working on it, things are better, etc. Thank you all SO SO MUCH for your responses in this thread. They've been a huge help! <3 __________________ 25/M/Straightish(either gender feet fine/Switch Likes: Feet, Self Foot Worship, Edging, Orgasm Control, Denial, Rules, Bets, Blackmail, Proof Dislikes: Ruined Orgasms, Extreme Denial(One Month+), Lines/Corner Time Limits: Anal, Watersports, Family, Social Suicide, Pain, Illegal/Dangerous, Face Pics(feet are fine) Kik: SubbyFootFetishist PM Dares