If you wife already has an interest in BDSM that is great. That means there is less you need to help her learn, because she has a base in the subject.
As for talking about wanting to be a sub well you just have to talk to her. Clothes on no sexy/play times about to happen talk. Tell her what sort of things you would want her to have you do. Who knows maybe she has an interesting in domming you but isn't sure what you think. I would say talk to her about a little and then tell her that you hope she will take some time to think about it if she feels unsure. After that then talk again. Also if you don't know how to say it ask if you two can write down some kinky fantasies for the other to read. And then write it out for her.
In the end is she has no interest in being a dom then that means that you either don't be a sub or (with your wife's knowledge and consent) you find a dom to play with outside of the relationship. There is always the third option where you both realize your aren't compatible and separate, but I hope that one of the other options works better.
In all honesty the biggest thing is talking. Just keep talking through everything. Hopefully this helps you a little bit.
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