[ReluctantExhibition]

Originally Posted by lilith_

What the title says I was wondering whether people here can survive in vanilla relationships.

1) Can you date vanilla people?
2) Have you opened up to them about your kinks? What happened?
3) Do you use getdare or fetlife without their knowledge?
4) Is polyamory an option for you?

1) Yes
2) No I have not, though I have enough kinks that aren't super "out there" so to speak that I think they would participate without me having to explain much.
3) I didn't have getdare while I was dating, but I feel I would use it with less frequency.
4) I don't like to give a definitive "no" to something I've spent little time thinking about and haven't tried, so how about 90% sure that it is not an option.