It's always good to take precautions. However in real life we often interact with people we know much less about just because they are "real", we've met in person. Real bdsm lacks for years in my real life because it's not easy to find people I trust/want for this and I'd feel more comfortable with someone I've got to know really well from here. Butterfly's case might be an ideal and quite rare one but I find it the natural way of things to develop.
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