[novice_girl]

Hi all

I'm thinking about buying a butterfly vibrator with remote that I can wear out and about, but I've never owned anything like this so am wondering if anyone here can help me.

I'm especially wondering about a four things:

1. How actually does the harness thing work? Is it secure and discreet? (Meaning if I wear it out and about, is it easily hidden under clothes and will it stay in place without worry?)
2. What is the battery life like?
3. How silent are they? Can I safely wear it out in public without fear of it being overheard?
4. How good is the remote control?

I understand that the answers to those questions might vary a lot depending on the specific brand and model and so on, but any advice is still really helpful! And of course if anyone has any brands/models that they specifically recommend (or think i should avoid!) that is especially helpful. I am based in London, so can buy online or go into a store.

Thanks for your help!!

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