Newbie rules for female sub (dom asking)
 

To begin with: my gf (18) and I (19) are rather new to this and would like to ask you for light and simple rules to begin with when she is sub to me. Or even what kinds of punishment to use if rules are broken

Something passive like kneeling down when we are alone, or having skirt lifted in car and such, or even more active when things are about to start.

tldr.: simple rules for begginer sub (f)

likes: anal, pet play, edging, light humiliation, objectification, pain, slave play, sensory deprivation, breath play

dislikes: pee/scat, messy, permanent, leaving visible marks, all out public (partial is ok)

toys: butterfly vibe, princess plug, anal beads plug, rope, clamps (weak to strong ones), lubes

BONUS: as a thank you, the best rule givers may get some nudes.

These are the rules I have for an online dynamic, don't know if they help

. You will send me a video every morning on your kneeling and making the following

' Good morning Sir. Today I am going to do all that I can to be your perfect slur and make sure that I make you happy'

I also want to see your nails painted and that you are wearing lipstick.

2. You are to send me a choice of two outfits for you to wear every day before going to bed. This will include underwear and shoes. I will occasion request pics throughout the day to check you are wearing what I say.

3. I want you to keep writing in your journal. Set an alarm on your phone every hour and write what you are doing and how you are feeling. You do not have to share this with me but I'm always interested in your thoughts

4. You are not allowed to cum without my permission. You may ask but do not assume it will be given.

5. I am happy with you sharing pics in group chats however do not share any pics of your tits or ass without the letter N being prominently displayed. This is for all groups and pm's at all times.
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6. You are to refer to me as Sir in any group chats or pm's with other people even if I'm not there. In our chats we will take it as it comes

She isn't allowed to orgasm without your permission

1. Must be naked, if possible, or barefoot when conversing with me.

2. You do not orgasm or play with yourself without permission.

3. Clothing must be approved by me.


Punishment: Outdoors, naked, wet, with sorry written on you. (Pic)

This is to start.

A simple one that will make her feel real submissive:

Each time you are finding back eachother she has to undress standing up in font of you to hand you her underwear for inspection. Check it in front of her to see if she's been a dirty girl then put them in your pocket.
If she refuses to compell she owns a barebottom spanking on your lap.

I think keeping rules real simple when starting helps.

Some basic ones:

1. Must address you as Sir when you are alone
2. Not being allowed to touch or cum without permission
3. Must wear a certain object or color each day to remind her of her submission to you.
4. Must ask permission to use the bathroom
5. Once a week you will pick out her outfit to wear
6. Must use a plug 3 hours a week min.
7. Must drink x amount of water each week.

As for punishments, I would have her list all of her dislikes/hates. Things she absolutely doesn't want to do (not the love/hate things). Then I would categorize them.

Light
10 lines
5 minutes of cornertime
1 day denial

Medium
Messy task
10-50 lines
3 days denial

Hard
24 hrs wearing a plug
50-100 lines
one week denial
sleep deprivation task

That way you will have a starting point when she does disobey. The list can expand over time, or you will be able to come up with your own punishments that are a bit more creative as well, but it gives you a starting place.

Have her bush shaved at all times. And you to do it to her. And to have her status to you written down there with a sharpie.

For pain, she to ask you in writing to cane her weekly, twelve strokes minimum. Naked on the bare bottom.

When you are walking together, she must always be slightly behind you you.

She remains standing until you sit down.

She does not start eating before you.

Unless otherwise instructed, her place is kneeling by your feet.

Unless otherwise instructed, she is to follow you when you leave a room.