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CardiffBoy 03-07-2011 03:44 PM

40 days and 40 nights
Lent is coming, so 40 days of going without something. From Wednesday 9th March until Sunday 17th April

After a drunken conversation on Saturday night, me and 2 mates are going to try to give up cumming for lent. Stroking, edging and sex are all allowed, just not actually shooting a load. (The only chance to lighten the load will be a wet dream lol)

Is anyone crazy enough to join us? Post and let everyone know how your getting on.

What other stuff are people giving up for lent? Post here to tell us what your giving up, and how you get on with it!

Raptor9458 03-07-2011 04:05 PM


Look up the American movie from 2002, "40 Days and 40 Nights."

Watch it if you can get your hands on it. :D

CardiffBoy 03-07-2011 04:10 PM

Seen it, I think it may have some responsibility for this crazy idea!! Thanks tho

Raptor9458 03-07-2011 04:35 PM

Hope you have an easier time. :D

bored_guy 03-08-2011 01:08 AM

ill give it a shot! ill let cha know when the first wet dream is. haha this is gonna be way tough though!

joseeke 03-08-2011 10:09 AM

U do realize lent is 46 day's :)

I tried it last year and i am trying it again this year. Although i am not that religious, i always liked the idea of a fixed date range of orgasm denial other then having to decide a date range myself.

Last year i failed after 30 agonising days. Hopefully i can complete the challenge this year.

p710a 03-08-2011 10:41 AM

i know i will fail but im gonna give it a go anyway

manwithcape 03-08-2011 02:27 PM


Originally Posted by p710a (Post 414654)
i know i will fail but im gonna give it a go anyway

that's the spirit to start with...
I won't join, 21 days was enough for me.
it's actually easy as long as you keep busy, it's those damn rainy days when...

rocker287 03-08-2011 02:45 PM

I was gonna post this actually. Im definetly up for it. Im also looking for a buddy to do this with. Someone around my age (24 or younger) and we can help each other out. Defenitely keep a daily log of how you feel, ex. urges of the day, how often you get erections throughout day, any leakage, stuff like that. Also with a buddy we can keep each other in check, if one guy is horny and has an urge the other guy could help him out by giving him a task like using ice. Im also intersted in using pics and webcam during the time. PM if your want to be my Lent buddy.

Raptor9458 03-08-2011 02:59 PM

I think the longest I ever went, was two weeks. That was this past summer, but I had very good motivation, in the form of a girl I was staying with.
She had gone out of town to visit her parents for a couple weeks, and I was, umm, "saving up" for her return. :D

Even knowing what awaited me on the other side of that window, it was extremely difficult, and was actually getting to the point that I was beginning to experience physical pain. This wasn't helped at all, by her suggestions that I check out certain "adult" titles, in her rather massive video library, while she was still away. :p

I wonder if we could form this into a competition of sorts. You know, to see who lasts the longest. I surely don't think it'll be me. I wonder what the prizes/penalties could be...

CardiffBoy 03-08-2011 04:09 PM


Originally Posted by joseeke (Post 414640)
U do realize lent is 46 day's :)

Lent is 40 days, finishes on palm sunday, a week before easter!!

Got one last one out about 5 to midnight, now this challenge seems like too much, but here goes!

Good luck

p710a 03-09-2011 11:29 AM


Originally Posted by manwithcape (Post 414758)
that's the spirit to start with...
I won't join, 21 days was enough for me.
it's actually easy as long as you keep busy, it's those damn rainy days when...

i know its not the spirit but i doubt i can last 2 weeks

CardiffBoy 03-11-2011 05:28 AM

Only on the third day in, ans woke up with a huge boner that stayed with me whilst I showered and got dressed, so tempted to stroke it a bit, but I dont think I;d have the self control to stop.

Considering locking it up in my CB6000 for the remainder of lent, what do you think?

Hpws everyone else doing?

NotANerd 03-11-2011 05:13 PM

I'm doing fine so far. And I hadn't cum since Feb 25, so it's been 2 weeks as of today, and I have about 6 more to go. :)

joseeke 03-13-2011 09:18 AM

Day 5: Everything going good so far. The first 3 days where very busy working days, so didn't have much problems.
day 4 and 5 where alredy a bit harder as it's a not so busy weekend for me which resulting in me having to find thing to do to not think about my primitive needs.

The hardest part in denying yourself to cum is sleeping. Getting to sleep with a hardon and not giving in to the morning erection require some practise.

I also gathered some tips to hold it for the next 35 days
1. No porn
2. Get out of bed the moment u wake up.
3. Don't look down there, avoid mirror's when getting dressed or after showers.
4. Try to avoid toutching it when not necesary.
5. Keep yourself busy
6. tight underwear and keep it pointed down to prevent full erections (You will start humping your bed without u realizing it and with your penis pointing down u get a bit less stimulation.)

Offcource these are my tips and they are a bit boring. U can always bring your willpower to the test by reversing my tips and watch porn, edge whenever u can, loose underwear, ...

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