29/male/dom seeks 24-36/female/sub in EU
 

Hi, I am looking for a female submissive aged around 24-34 in the EU area.

About me:
I am 28 years old and am mostly dominant. My nationality is German and I enjoy reading, all the usual friend stuff including gaming and some random programming at times (for example a script for my denial service featured in my signature). And who isn't watching videos or series?

As every single person in the world I can be a bit dorky, slow and stupid at times (last known example: I did double read a '32F' posted in the 'Guys punish girls by breastsize'-thread as both the size and '32 female'. Took me a while to realize it...) but it often just leads to a laugh. In that sense I do consider myself dorky and I really don't mind too much.

Nobody will ever have all the experience but I did gather enough to mostly know what I want.

The type of dom I am aiming to be and am usually is that of a soft-dom: I do not consider myself something 'better' than a submissive but I still love to sweettalk them into being good girls. :D I perosnally value trying hard over succeeding, which however means I don't need to feel bad for giving challenging tasks. A punishment for failing is still in order but I hardly ever feel angry in those cases, so you should take the punishment with a smile.

What the relationship should be:
I am looking for a hopefully longterm relationship, which should not be a burden on you but instead enhance both of our freetime. It is important that the relationship builds at least on a form of friendship and we enjoy each other outside of play aswell. Trust and honesty in both direction is a necessary condition for me.
If we connect and decide to give it a try I prefer to chat via an app like kik or telegram (the later is actual a nice app, unlike the former). This allows us to form a deeper connection and keep in touch, even if time for a play-session is hard to find. Neither you should have a secondary dom/me, nor do I want a secondary sub.

What I would like you to be/ have/ etc:

• around my age. I don't want to make a hard limit but the closer the better and 21 is definitely too young for example.
• around my area. This means at leats close to my time zone (Germany, so currently UTC+1) and further than that it is like with edges: The closer the better. :D
• fun in my eyes
• share most of my likes or are curious to try
• a female

My kinks:

• I love orgasm control and tease & denial. Both kinks belong naturally to each other for me. I want to decide when you get to cum, when not and at best even decide when you get to edge. I prefer the denial to be unpredictable and the length is often rather mediocre because I also really like to make a good subby, which I adore, cum. I generally want you to give the control over your pleasure away. Even if you get to know when your next orgasm will be would be my decision.
• Edging kinda belongs to the tease& denial above but it deserves to get its own spot. I do love to make my submissives wet and either make her cum hard or leave frustrated and needy but happy.
• Lighthearted degradation in both tasks and name calling. Body writing, panty gags etc belong to this for me.
• Anal: I do usually not heavily focus on this but it is a nice way to add additional pleasure/ degradation and a good way to make you fuck yourself without the need of your pussy.
• Pain: Similar as anal, a very nice way to add additional fun

Limits:

• Pictures: sharing pictures to strangers is scary. I might ask for pictures of objects after a while but I do mean it as a question. If you aren't comfortable a no is a no.
• Public/family: huge no for me, just too dangerous for the social life
• Permanent: The female body is pretty beautiful already, why would I want to change much about that.
• Dangerous: do I have to say more than no?
• Scat: Nope, not into it at all.
• Ageplay: Only turns me off.

How to apply: If you are still interested feel free to write me a PM to get into contact. Please make sure the following information is either contained in the Pm or accessible via your profile:

• Age and Location (as general as you feel comfortable, but at least the timezone please)
• Your likes/ dislikes and limits. Are there some you have missed in my list?
• The toys you own (Not a requirement but gives a nice overview over your experience and likes etc.)
• How much experience you have with denial. As in how long is your maximal duration etc.
• Show some personality please. I want a person as a submissive, not a robot.
• Any questions you have for me.

Thank you for reading all of this, no matter if you reply or not and good luck on your search!

Best of luck looking Herpy!!

He's awesome ladies, better hit him up ;)

Thank you for your kind words! :D

Just being honest ;) I find you fun!

Should be allowed to bump now. Up to the top. :D

Very well written ad that sounds completely reasonable and a mutually enjoyable arrangement. I already have a most wonderful master, but after reading that I just wanted to drop a note and wish you luck in finding all that you’re looking for.

Thank you for that kind message. I hope others who are still searching will feel the same. :D

Still looking, message me if you are curious or interested. :)

New year, new bump. Still searching.

Been far too long since this was at the top

One more try to bump this.

Wasn't feeling very kinky lately but it seems to be back, so bumping my thread. :)

After the last reply didn't really work out I did some consideration and decided that I am no longer actively want to search for anything serious right now.

So this is not a bump but if any mod could close my ad I would appreciate it. Thank you and good luck to everybody on the search!

Reviving this thread and continuing my search!