22F - My first AMA ❤️
 

Hi, I’m Gently! I’m new to GetDare and would love to get to know you. Or well, for you to get to know me 😉 Ask me anything!

What are your like, dislikes, limits?

Is it you in your profile picture?

How did you find this kinky corner of the internet?

Describe your body

What is the kinkiest thing you’ve done in your life?

Likes, dislikes, and public thrills
 

Thank you for the questions 😘

What are your likes, dislikes, limits? I’m honestly not sure yet - in part because I’m still quite new and find it hard to differentiate between things that make me hot-and-bothered in theory, versus things I love in practice… So far, though, I’ve really enjoyed bondage, bodywriting, verbal humiliation, taking erotic photographs, and oral worship. I don’t really like any pain more severe than nipple clamps, or piss. And I definitely won’t do anything that could jeopardise my everyday life.

Is it you in your profile picture? Yes ☺️ I love taking erotic photos, and will try and make them more risqué over time.

How did you find this kinky corner of the internet? I’ve been lurking for a little while, but basically through trying to find kinky tasks / ideas / dares online that I could use to explore my bdsm-loving side.

Describe your body. Hm, I’m fairly tall, curvy, pale. I cut my hair very short recently, so I remind myself of a hedgehog sometimes when it sticks up all over🙈

What is the kinkiest thing you’ve done in your life? Probably the time I spent a two-hour train ride with a vibrator buzzing away in my panties… I was red-faced, panting, and it was surprisingly loud, but it was not remote controlled and I need to reach into my pants to turn it down a speed right there and then.

How many guys/girls have you been with?

Do you prefer to go down on guys or girls, whom do you prefer going down on you?

Do you do dares? If so what dares have you done, what do you want to do? What would test your limits of a dare.

Sexual history, and pushing my boundaries
 

Good morning! Thank you for your questions ☺️

How many guys / girls have you been with? Well, I’ve had sex with two guys, but in quite short-term relationships. And one girl, who I dated for quite a long time.

Do you prefer to go down on guys or girls, whom do you prefer going down on you? Oh, this is quite hard actually… Let’s say I love going down on women, but there is nothing quite like being filled with cock. I should say that in my experience women give better head though 😉

Do you do dares? If so what dares have you done, what do you want to do? I do enjoy doing dares, though I haven’t done too many so far. Posing naked for pictures, sure. But also going out for a walk and taking off my panties outside, taking pictures of myself with my tits tied up all pretty, writing naughty words on myself for their amusement, etc. I’d love to do more, and slowly open up new areas of kink for myself - maybe light pain play, or sensation play, or god knows what else! Happy to hear all manner of ideas!

What would test your limits in a dare? Hm, so let’s say this is the most edgy dare I’d be able to do right now, but it’s almost crossing the line… Going out in public, rope underneath my clothes, and having to take a photo of my naked pussy every hour on the hour in a new location? Just for the sheer time and risk of exposure. Or maybe pushing my pain boundaries a little and flogging my ass until red and glowing? Or cockwarming, deepthroating my dildo until given permission to stop? Honestly, the more I think about these things the hotter I get, so I’ll stop now 🙈

Hi and welcome,

You were talking about being hot and bothered; do you have any experience with denial? :)

What are your hobbies and interests outside of kink?

Great picture, I hope the mouth outside hasa great smile? (adds extra sexiness ;) )

What was the last object you had in each of your holes?

Orgasm denial, and my questionable taste in literature
 

Hello, and thank you for your questions!

You were talking about being hot and bothered - do you have any experience with denial? Not in any controlled way, no. I do try to prolong the time to my orgasm as much as possible as a matter of habit, just to prolong the pleasure… But I haven’t really tried any of these formal orgasm control dares. I’m not sure I’d be disciplined enough to keep to it, to be honest 😅

What are your hobbies and interests outside of kink? I do some digital art (some of it even quite steamy…) and go bouldering. Otherwise, I just stay home and read trashy fantasy novels, or fanfiction.

Great picture, I hope the mouth has a great smile? I always smile when I’m showing off…

What was the last object you had in each of your holes? Hm, so my pretty purple vibrator in my pussy. A nice long ice lolly in my mouth 😉 And I haven’t really tried any anal play yet, so that’s all in the future…

You're welcome, morning to you too.

I don't see anyone telling you to stop ;)

What is the best orgasm you've had, all the details.

Do you like guys cumming on or in you? What about girls squirting on you (if its happened, if not would you like to try it)

Do you have a vibrator that someone else could control, would you give that control to a stranger on the internet.

Good morning :)

Can you name us something that makes you all hot and bothered in theory, but you wouldn´t be brave enough to do at the moment?
Don´t dare to stop before you are all hot talking about it :D

You said you enjoy bondage a lot. Despite your obvious faible for breast bondage, is there a favorite position you like to be tied up in?

How long do you usually prolong the pleasure before you allow yourself to cum?

What kind of 'rewards' do you like the most for being a good submissive?/ What is your main motivation?

As for suggestions regarding new pictures: how do you feel about redoing that nice picture in your album but this time without wearing anything underneath the waistcoat? Too teasing already? ;)

Favourite orgasms, and even more questionable literature
 

I’m very glad to hear you enjoyed my rambling ☺️

What is the best orgasm you've had, all the details. Oh, best orgasm is a hard ask… More honestly, it’s probably the time I lost my virginity to my high school sweetheart - she bought me my first sex toy and we spent a fun day in what I can only refer to as a pillow fort 😅 But if you’re looking for a nice kinky story, I had an absolutely mind-blowing orgasm recently, not even because of something I did, but because of some things I read. I have started reading some stories of quite really extreme kinks and there were these two (one with somnophilia, and the other with hypnosis-like sexual training) that frankly drove me out of my mind…

Do you like guys cumming on or in you? What about girls squirting on you, if it’s happened? If not, would you like to try it? I’ve never actually had either thing happen to me. Not all girls squirt, and I always used condoms… But it’s definitely on the wish list now 😘

Do you have a vibrator that someone else could control? Would you give that control to a stranger on the internet? I would, but I don’t have one… If someone is willing to gift me a Lovense, I’m so game. (I’m joking!)

Good afternoon Gently,

I also have a few questions for you, please answer as detailed as possible:

Have you ever faked an orgasm and if yes why?

Have you ever had sex with multiple people at the same time?

How old where you the first time you had sex with a man? And a woman?

What is the weirdest place you ever had sex?

Have you ever been caught having sex and if yes by who?

Have you ever had sex while somebody was watching?

That's it for now, might be back with more!

-X-

Struggling to breathe from my fantasies
 

Good morning 😉

Can you name us something that makes you all hot and bothered in theory, but you wouldn't be brave enough to do at the moment? Don't dare to stop before you are all hot talking about it. Oh, there are... far too many things 🙈 Kneeling for hours under a desk, warming a cock in my throat, and being played with while I'm asleep or drunk, completely helpless, and feeling the stroke of a cane or a crop against my skin, and my ass stretching until it gapes as much as my pussy or even more, and feeling like a cum bucket, being used by a group of men, passed around again and again, and being led on a leash in public, and piercing my nipples, and struggling for breath as I worship my partner's pussy and ass with my tongue, and being suspended with ropes from the ceiling, always on display, and... I am actually running out of breath.

You said you enjoy bondage a lot. Despite your obvious faible for breast bondage, is there a favorite position you like to be tied up in? I love having my wrists in cuffs behind my back. I love them attached to my collar - I look like a begging puppy. And now that I think about it, I would love to sit on a dildo, my ankles cuffed to the chair, so I cannot even shift to pleasure myself and just have to squirm in place...

Do you have kik?

Rewards, and pretty pictures
 

And so many more questions... How exciting ❤️

How long do you usually prolong the pleasure before you allow yourself to cum? Hours and hours, usually! I just distract myself with something else for a while first, and enjoy the wet slick sensation in my panties.

What kind of 'rewards' do you like the most for being a good submissive? What is your main motivation? I love being praised for how well I've completed a task. I love the validation of views and comments, that feeling of having all eyes on me. And I love the idea of you getting hot, or wet, or hard, and just that you can't help yourself when you look at my pictures 😳

I've actually had a similar suggestion from GermanSir in my PMs earlier, and it's awaiting Moderation approval in getDare albums right now... I am very excited for you to see it 😊

Sounds very good and can be combined easily with the parts of your previous answer.
I´m sure you would appreciate to be able to worship your partner in this position.
Though you could also just listen to others pleasuring themselves, while you can´t ;)

What kind of bodywritings do you prefer?
Let´s say in general and in the above mentioned situation, where you would just be on full display...

My very vanilla sexual experiences so far
 

Good afternoon 😘

Have you ever faked an orgasm and if yes why? No, I haven't. There is no point in it really - even if I don't orgasm, that pleasure wave just before is just as good and lasts a lot longer.

Have you ever had sex with multiple people at the same time? Not yet 😉 I'd love to try it someday. Maybe with two cocks sliding in me at the same time, or maybe eating a pussy out, while her partner slides into her ass...

How old where you the first time you had sex with a man? And a woman? Uh, let's see. My first sexual experience with a man was at 18, I think? And 19 for the first time I had sex with a woman.

What is the weirdest place you ever had sex? With other people? Nothing too exciting - a university dorm room, I guess. In terms of pleasuring myself though? On a train is probably the most exciting so far 😌 I'd love to hear suggestions though!

Have you ever been caught having sex and if yes by who? No, not really caught by anyone. I do think that plenty of people heard me moaning through the walls though, but I try not to think about it 🙈

Have you ever had sex while somebody was watching? Not yet is probably the answer to that 😉

Kik
 

No, and I don't really plan on getting one. There are a lot more secure options out there, I think. Though given I casually post my steamy photos on a public forum, I'm not sure what I'm really worried about 😅

Oh that answer really suggests you might be better at denial than you believe yourself. As long as the proper motivation is there it is much easier to have the discipline because you are doing it for somebody else. :)

Looking forward to the picture!

Would you be willing to share your digital arts someday? I am kinda curious about them.
What are your usual themes for them?

Good afternoon 😘

Have you ever faked an orgasm and if yes why? No, I haven't. There is no point in it really - even if I don't orgasm, that pleasure wave just before is just as good and lasts a lot longer. one of the best answers as of yet to this question!

Have you ever had sex with multiple people at the same time? Not yet 😉 I'd love to try it someday. Maybe with two cocks sliding in me at the same time, or maybe eating a pussy out, while her partner slides into her ass... ooh do share your experience should this ever happen

How old where you the first time you had sex with a man? And a woman? Uh, let's see. My first sexual experience with a man was at 18, I think? And 19 for the first time I had sex with a woman.

What is the weirdest place you ever had sex? With other people? Nothing too exciting - a university dorm room, I guess. In terms of pleasuring myself though? On a train is probably the most exciting so far 😌 I'd love to hear suggestions though! hmmm risky public masturbation, now there's an idea for a new dare thread... I'll get right on it!

Have you ever been caught having sex and if yes by who? No, not really caught by anyone. I do think that plenty of people heard me moaning through the walls though, but I try not to think about it 🙈

Have you ever had sex while somebody was watching? Not yet is probably the answer to that 😉 *raises hand* I offer myself as tribute!:D[/QUOTE]

Care to share the name of the public forum? Pretty please, bound, whipped and with a cherry on top

Written on the skin
 

In my fantasies... that is very much how it goes 🙈

What kind of bodywritings do you prefer? Let's say in general and in the above mentioned situation, where you would just be on full display... I suppose there are two types that I deeply enjoy. One is the "call to action" type, where my body asks for onlookers to rape me, grope me, fuck me, cum in me, tease me, and to call me the most delicious of words - fuckmeat, cum bucket, cockwarmer, and more that I cannot even imagine right now. And the second is more artistic, I suppose - hand prints traced onto my skin like a reminder of touch, open mouths pressed into my curves to leave imprints of lipstick and hot breath behind, drawn on clothing and lingerie that doesn't cover a single thing...

Arts and crafts
 

Maybe, maybe... 😉

Would you be willing to share your digital arts someday? I am kinda curious about them. What are your usual themes for them? Oh sure, I am happy share a few sketches later, and I'm also always happy to make you a drawing if you have a particularly delicious idea.

I suppose the situation you described me earlier would make a delicious drawing :D
Could also imagine you replicating or drawing something you read in a story.

Let´s have some questions for your upcoming denial *cough*

While in denial would you prefer to be (physically) teased over and over or not being able to touch at all?

Do you prefer to get teased physically or mentally?

What do you think how your behaviour and maybe fantasies would change if you are not able to cum for e.g. a week?

Albums
 

I'm very glad you enjoyed my answers so much 😘

Oh I just meant I would be posting them on getDare albums. But I guess I could create an album on a more open site as well? Something to consider. Oh, and I found this site called SubmissiveTask yesterday - it's kind of quiet but I love the concept 😍

My upcoming denial, huh?
 

Which of the many situations? 😂 That sounds very exciting...

Let's have some questions for your upcoming denial *cough* While in denial would you prefer to be (physically) teased over and over or not being able to touch at all? I think I would be excited to see if I could actually reach orgasm with no stimulation to my pussy whatsoever... Teased on my nipples, my skin sensitised to the extreme, honeyed words in my ear - but legs immobilised so wide I cannot give myself any pleasure at all, even by grinding against the sheets.

Do you prefer to get teased physically or mentally? Whilst I enjoy physical teasing and would love to experience the breadth of activities that entails, mental teasing is often as exciting or even more. That sense of anticipation...

What do you think how your behaviour and maybe fantasies would change if you are not able to cum for e.g. a week? I think I would be ok not cumming for a week normally, if I was just living my life. But if I was constantly aroused throughout the day, I think it would be pure torture 🙈 A few years ago, I was visiting Paris with a friend of mine, we were couch-surfing at my aunt's, and I was so sexually frustrated I had a vivid sex dream of my friend impaling me with sex toys whilst sleeping like a foot away from her. So embarrassed...

The one with the chair, the dildo and your frustration :D

Now that sounds like something embarrassing you want to tell us about to get even more horny!

As a follow up, having these fantasies, how was it to look her into the eyes afterwards?
Have you ever had follow up fantasies of that?
Did you use them to get off at some point? ;)

Embarrassing sex dreams
 

Um, I guess I could 🙈 We were there for the weekend, for her birthday. It was the last year of high school. She is completely straight, not at all interested in me. But for the entire week before that I was so busy with getting my coursework done and ready, packing, spending time with her... I was getting quite sexually frustrated and didn't have any privacy to pleasure myself.

The trip was going well, but we ended up sharing the same fold-out couch at my aunt's, and I was just so restless. When I finally went to sleep, I just remember this vivid dream of her sitting over me with a vibrator in her hand. There is this crazy collection of sex toys all around us somehow, all of different colours and each more exciting than the last. In the dream, it's all very vague, but she presses dozens of them in me, some alone, some together, and it's just this kaleidoscope of pleasure.

I woke up wet, with my hand between my legs, and utterly mortified 😳 The worst part was that I was actually really into another girl in my high school at that point, and would begin dating soon after that.

As a follow up, having these fantasies, how was it to look her into the eyes afterwards? I was so embarrassed. I don't think she realised what had happened, she was asleep. But I was actually quite irritable and snappish the entire time after that.

Have you ever had follow up fantasies of that? Did you use them to get off at some point? I've had similar fantasies since, yes. Of being played with, like I'm an instrument almost...

Oh yes I I do really enjoy your answers!

As an album Getdare doesn't work that well IF you intend to include even partial nudity. You could try Kinktalk or mynakedselfie (.) com for that

Do you often wear your collar outside of play?
How does it make you feel?

Have you ever tasted your own wetness after edging? How do you like the taste?

Have you ever had a ruined orgasm?

Collars, and orgasms
 

Do you often wear your collar outside of play? How does it make you feel? Not outside of play per se... I sometimes wear it around the apartment when I am doing chores, but just the sensation of it makes me so aroused that it's kind of a fantasy in of itself. I love how soft and constricting it is - I am always aware of it, I'm always so much more submissive in it I think 😉

Have you ever tasted your own wetness after edging? How do you like the taste? I have tasted myself, but it's quite different from tasting another woman I think. Still the same salty taste, but it's not as exciting when it's just me...

Have you ever had a ruined orgasm? I'm not sure, actually. I have had unsatisfying orgasms, but I'm not sure what actually makes one "ruined."

What is a ruined orgasm:
A ruined orgasm is typically a type of control play found in the BDSM community whereby the dominant person gets the submissive person highly aroused and then leaves them hanging to experience a very low-quality, low- to no-sensation type of orgasm, if any at all

Meaning that any and all forms of stimulation stop the moment you orgasm

Then the answer is yes, but not on purpose 😂

You mentioned multiple times that you crave to be used by multiple person. Let´s talk about that.

How many people are in your fantasies? Just two others or would you prefer being a toy for more at the same time?

Imagine you are about to get used by multiple people of both genders. You are led into the room by a leash on your collar. You get stripped and tied up in the middle of the room.
First question: How?
Second: Would you prefer to se everyone or to be blindfolded (maybe even ear plugged) so you don´t know who touches and uses you?

Gangbang fantasies
 

If you insist...

How many people are in your fantasies? Just two others or would you prefer being a toy for more at the same time? I think it depends on the fantasy. I can see myself playing with more, but whilst with two partners I feel I could be more of an active participant, with more I would in fact just be a toy to be passed around. Which is exciting in a different way 😉 Would be overwhelming in a different way...

First question: How? Let's say I am tied up on my back, with my calves and thighs bound together, raised, my head hanging back from the bench - all of my holes on display. Or let's say on my hands and knees, like a bitch waiting to be mounted, hm?

Second: Would you prefer to see everyone or to be blindfolded (maybe even ear plugged) so you don't know who touches and uses you? I think both are exciting, but I'd prefer to see everyone, to have this sense of anticipation knowing how many people I am there to serve. And how excited they look to make use of me 🙈

Did you touch yourself while you answered all these sexual questions today? ;)

Kik update, and sweet sweet pleasure
 

Oh I got beautifully wet... But I mainly played with my nipples, nice and gentle, to prolong the pleasure 😉

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In other news, I gave to the inevitable and downloaded kik, but the interface is awful. Feel free to add me though at playgently.

Good afternoon. After reading your ama I must say that you seem like a very interesting and fun person. Reading you talk about your fantasies is great.

My questions would be

Would you ever go into a strict kink relationship i.e dom/sub dynamic or would you rather not commit to one specific person and have fun with whomever you choose?

How many different collars do you own? What about other toys like gags, dildos, or cuffs?


What are your thoughts on public humiliation, would you enjoy wearing a sexy collar or writing where people can see, or would you rather have it hidden so only you and the person who gave you the task would know about it?

Would you enjoy doing public stuff like masturbating in a public bathroom?


Thanks so much for taking the time for answering these questions, I hope you have a great day!

Oh, hey, I'm over there too, maybe you'll stumble upon some tasks of mine ;)


As for a question: For lingerie, do you prefer wearing fancy bras, or fancy panties?

Public humiliation, and ill-advised sex toy purchases
 

Thank you ☺️ I’m glad you enjoyed reading this thread.

Would you ever go into a strict kink relationship i.e dom/sub dynamic or would you rather not commit to one specific person and have fun with whomever you choose? I think I would only consider going exclusive with a person I know offline. If I end up dating someone who is into kink, I think I would really enjoy a more permanent sexual dynamic like Dom/sub, but for online play it doesn’t seem really worth it - particularly as you generally only see people here through a sexual lens, and not in a romantic manner, if that makes sense?

How many different collars do you own? What about other toys like gags, dildos, or cuffs? I only own one collar, though I am quite pleased with it ☺️ I may have had an… ill-advised purchase spree recently and bought a lot more sex toys than I’ve ever considered before 🙈 Including wrist and ankle cuffs, and a ball gag, yes.

What are your thoughts on public humiliation, would you enjoy wearing a sexy collar or writing where people can see, or would you rather have it hidden so only you and the person who gave you the task would know about it? Unless the plan is to drive to a city where there is no chance of me being recognised, I would probably be uncomfortable with being too obvious in public. I am also very aware that I might make other people uncomfortable by being overly sexual or be seen by children. So whilst I love the idea of public humiliation, unless it’s very much hidden or happens in a secure environment (e.g., sex club), I don’t think I’d be interested.

Would you enjoy doing public stuff like masturbating in a public bathroom? I do enjoy the idea of doing dares in hidden public places… Actually getting naked in a restroom stall or changing room and putting on some ropes underneath my clothes, or having to write what a slutty cunt I am on my body whilst metres away from perfect strangers, sounds quite delicious.