28/F - Ask Me Anything :)
 

Hi everyone!

I've previously been a member of getDare many years ago, but for a variety of personal reasons I ended up taking a longer break, ultimately ending with me also losing access to my old account on here. Nowadays I do not mind that too much though, as I have not been that active anyways and many things changed since then, so I kinda see it as a thing of the past.

Last year I decided to return though and since then mostly spent my time with lurking on the forums, catching up with people I knew from back then and chatting online about both kinky and non-kinky things.

There is one thing I have not done though, which is actually posting something to the forums. I just never really got to it and was also unsure what my first post should be about, so I ended up staying at zero posts for more than a year. Lately I've thought about this again though and decided that I want to contribute to the forum at least a bit, so this AMA is going to be my first one! :D

Feel free to ask me any kind of questions you might have and I'm happy to answer them, as long as they're not harmful or too personal in some way. Given that all of us like some kinky fun and I'm currently experimenting with some orgasm denial, I decided to spice things up and will do an edge for every post with at least 3 questions. :)

Looking forward to answering whatever all of you might want to know!

~ Dimples

1. What was your favorite memory from your previous time here?
2. What's your biggest sexual fantasy?
3. How many fingers can you fit inside yourself?

What's the best aspect of denial you're noticing and what's the worst?
What made you decide to come back on this site again after long time?
If you could pick just one sex toy (but it can be whatever, even if you don't own it) to a desert island what would it be?

Now that I reached the questions to make you edge a few extra I always have to ask :P

What's your favourite movie?
What's your favourite book?

Have fun with the answers and the edges :).

What is your happiest memory and why?

Do you prefer being hugged or kissed?

Would you prefer a partner who matches your kinks, or is very romantic?

What is your favourite thing about yourself?

Thank you for your questions and being the first one to reply, I'll get to that edge soon! Here are my answers to your questions:

What was your favorite memory from your previous time here?
That's a good question and I think I would head for the overall experience that getDare has provided me over time. Many years ago I was very much vanilla and only got slightly into the whole kink scene, specifically bondage, by reading erotic stories online. One day I stumbled across getDare, lurked here for a long time and then signed up, which further helped me explore. I learned about so many kinks on here, met so many lovely people and discovered many new kinks that I like myself, so all those experiences and memory as a whole were also what brought me back on here. It's just fun to talk with like-minded people about kink and explore it further together.

What's your biggest sexual fantasy?
My biggest sexual fantasy stayed mostly the same throughout all those years, as I've always been feeling very submissive and liked the whole aspect of bondage a lot. More specifically, I like the thought of being tied down by a lovely dominant person and played with over a longer amount of time. And ideally, at least as part of my fantasy, also combining it with things like a blindfold so I'd be more surprised. This has always only been a fantasy though and I would need to have so much trust into that person to actually go for something like that, as obviously this would be a very vulnerable situation.

How many fingers can you fit inside yourself?
During normal masturbation and without actually having done anything before I usually go for like 1-2 fingers which feels really nice for me. Only when I'm pleasing myself for a longer amount of time and get really excited I sometimes add a third, but that's about as much as I can comfortably take.

Thank you for your lovely questions as well! Here are my replies:

What's the best aspect of denial you're noticing and what's the worst?
I've always felt a bit negatively about the whole denial thing and was a bit scared I would eventually get bored after 2-3 days, but I have to admit that it is more pleasing in a different way than I would have thought. The worst aspect is probably having to stop after some longer play without getting that relief I'm longing for, meaning I'll have to stay all horny and aroused and just wait for it to pass / get somewhat better without any easy way out. At the same time though this is also pleasing/arousing in a way, as it's a very submissive thing to do (at least for me) and being denied makes any sort of sexual interaction more intense, even when it's just simple touching / rubbing. Can also be slightly distracting at times though because I think way more often about kinky things than I usually do... It is certainly an interesting experience :)

What made you decide to come back on this site again after long time?
I've just learned about so many things on getDare and met so many people back then that a huge part of my kink life only exists due to this place. So admittedly I was feeling a little nostalgic and quite keen on getting back on it, which I then eventually did. As replied in my earlier post for wolf82 it's just proven to be tons of fun to interact with like-minded people, so the more I thought about all the things I had here the more tempted I was to return :) Sure, sometimes there are some weird people and interactions you might not like that much, but as a whole it's a pretty lovely place. And last but not least some day searching the forum was suddenly no longer possible without being signed up, so this was the final reason to actually get fully back on here.

If you could pick just one sex toy (but it can be whatever, even if you don't own it) to a desert island what would it be?
I'd take my usual dildo-shaped vibrator with me if I could only pick a single toy from all of them. After some time with only using improvised toys (as in household objects) that kind of toy was the first one I ever bought for myself and I always liked it. It works well for teasing yourself (e.g. dragging it through labia), it can be used for some lovely penetration and can also be held against clit, so it's kinda the perfect toy which covers all the bases in my opinion :D

What's your favourite movie?
My all-time favorite movie is The Green Mile from 1999, which in my opinion has a well-written and very emotional story, an excellent performance from all the actors and contains a powerful message in itself. I wouldn't describe it as the most comfortable movie to watch and it certainly got me teary, but I really think it is an amazing film.

What's your favourite book?
That question is a bit more tricky to answer, as I would not say I have a single favorite book. If I was talking about series, I'd probably go for Harry Potter as it's been a part of my childhood, followed by The Hunger Games which (unlike the movies) I also quite liked to read. Speaking of individual books I can not really pick one, but here is a random list of books I considered as really great: The Book Thief from Markus Zusak, The Shining + Misery from Stephen King, The Martian from Andy Weir, The Handmaid's Tale from Margaret Atwood

What is your happiest memory and why?
That is a tricky question, as while I do have a certain moment in my life I was happiest about it is really personal and I do not really feel comfortable sharing this here. As a very rough and vague summary I could say that I was going through some rougher time once, but got through it and achieved many wonderful things, which I'm still proud of up to this day. I know it doesn't say much, but I hope it's at least something :)

Do you prefer being hugged or kissed?
Good question. I would say I prefer being hugged overall, as while kissing a person you love is really affectionate and lovely, hugging has that nice and cuddly feeling about it. And unlike kissing it's also a more common occurrence between good friends, so if I could only have one of the two I would probably go for the hugs.

Would you prefer a partner who matches your kinks, or is very romantic?
I was not fully sure but I assume that with "matches your kinks" you meant that the partner would be into these kinks and dominant and not submissive like me :D Obviously if I could have the combination of a great partner who is also into all the kinky things I would take that any day, but in general the overall character and chemistry is way more important than kinks. I do not have all that much real life kink experience and many partners were pretty vanilla, which always worked out well. So overall if I could only have one of the two I'd always go for an awesome person first, then also kink on top if it works out for both sides.

What is your favourite thing about yourself?
Given that your question did not specifically about what, I decided to go for favorite character traits of myself. One of them is that I'm quite supportive and helpful to others. I love listening to someone who is struggling with things, try to cheer them up or support them in whichever way I can. Another one would be that I do not give up quickly, even if I'm facing some sort of harder challenge at work or wherever I usually prefer trying to find a way / solution by myself instead of directly running for help.

Do you really have dimples?

Do you really have dimples?
I do have actual dimples on my cheeks and really like them myself. Luckily others in real life also mentioned them positively in the past, so no complaints at all about them. When I signed up for getDare I struggled a little with picking a nickname, but somehow dimples came into my mind and that's the reason for my nick on here. :)

Do you have back dimples?

What makes me so amazing? Besides the fantastically large ego :P

What kink have you found that you were surprised to enjoy the most?

Are there any that you liked before but now don't fany? What is it about them that put you off, if there was one?

Do you have back dimples?
Slightly, just not that pronounced and a bit more difficult to see. I don't feel as attached to them as the ones in my face, but I remember that there was once some weird beauty trend drama being made about those.

What makes me so amazing? Besides the fantastically large ego :P
Well after a very long and careful consideration I'd say your name is quite creative as it always reminds me a little bit of the famous Loch Ness monster, which is even more fitting given you're living in Scotland. Other than that... just the fantastically large ego I suppose :p (obviously kidding here and not meant in any insulting way)

What kink have you found that you were surprised to enjoy the most?
Thinking back all the way to my vanilla days I was probably most surprised when I slowly started to realise how much I actually turned out to be into the whole masochism/pain category. Would have never expected that myself but as time passed I discovered it more and more and up to this day it feels a bit surprising to me that I'm into it, but well I am. Only in the context of being submissive though, it's not a thing for me when I'm just masturbating by myself or anything, in which case I'm still fairly vanilla up to this day.

Are there any that you liked before but now don't fany? What is it about them that put you off, if there was one?
There isn't one that comes to my mind, it was rather the other way around which kinda goes along with the question I just answered above this one. I gradually started getting into more and more styles of kink and after a while gave some of them a try which I would have previously considered as a clear no. Can't think of anything that I no longer like though.

What humiliation do you like?

What humiliation do you like?
I would say that humiliation is mostly one of two things, at least for me. The first one would be some more tame name calling, as that can be quite arousing, as long as there are no super harsh words involved and it's been previously discussed. Second thing would be more about being humiliated by doing some other sort of slutty/degrading task - as an example, having to beg for something kinky, doing some sort of exotic hidden public, a risky form of bladder control, etcetera...

So I would define it myself more as a thing that I like coming along with another task/activity or being called some words while playing with a dominant person. But I could not think of a good example right now for something which only involves humiliation, I think I'm mostly into the "doing humiliating things" part myself. I hope that makes sense in some way and answers your question :)

Do you like being slutty? I know you have some slutty thongs lol.
What other slutty things do you have?

What things do you think about when masturbating?

Have you ever been caught masturbating?

What porn, if any, do you read or watch when masturbating?